💔 He was cheating and I was ignoring the signs 🙈🙉🙊
7 years and 6 kids later the ultimate betrayal happened.
Although the signs were all around me I choose to ignore it because we’ll, “that’s my husband, he would never”…
But once the truth came out I felt as if I betrayed myself. Because my intuition knew and I ignored it all.
The biggest one for me was my PH balance started to go absolutely wack! Things I usually only experienced with my pregnancies due to hormone change became a new normal. Our bodies don’t lie to us. Especially as women, the PH knows when an intruder is in the midst. Listen to your body!!!
I was a SAHM so he could achieve his dreams in an industry he loved. After he landed his dream job it went as normal for a while and then suddenly he was gone more and for a lot longer everyday.
We would call and text often throughout the day and over time is became less and less because you know, “he was more busy” 🙄
He’s always been kind of a hot head, but he became a person I couldn’t even stand to be around. Always yelling at our kids, no playing or happy moments. And everything about our life became a problem to him. I got to a point where I looked forward to him leaving town because of how unnecessarily harsh he was being.
He worked so much he was hardly ever home. But when the check came it reflected the time of normal hours he worked before but there was always a reason. “They are gonna put it on the next one” “I borrowed some in advance” “my hours got messed up” ect. It was always something 🤥
Previously throughout the years I went with him out of town for work because it was a sport based job and I was welcome, plus we got time together away from the kids. But suddenly I wasn’t allowed because the “owners didn’t want the extra expense” although we paid for our own stuff, I just slept in the hotel room with him that he would have weather I was there or not. But I just said okay, business is business 😒
END RESULT,
He was sleeping with his bosses daughter 🤮
Ladies, listen to your intuition, it’s NOT just all in your head.
Care more about yourself than the blinding love you have for anyone.
Just because you have years invested doesn’t mean it can’t be taken for granted by the other person in just a split second.
Stay aware ALWAYS because your heart and sanity truly depend on it 🤞
Recognizing the signs of infidelity is paramount for safeguarding your emotional well-being. In relationships, certain behavior changes can indicate deeper issues. For example, a partner who increasingly works late hours or becomes less communicative may be hiding something. Many women experience shifts in their bodies—such as hormonal imbalance or unusual bodily responses—that can hint at underlying relationship troubles. These physical signs, particularly in a woman’s PH balance, should never be overlooked. In my experience as a stay-at-home mom, I sacrificed my own aspirations for my partner's career. Unfortunately, the imbalance in our dynamic led to a scenario where I felt neglected and blindsided. It's essential to prioritize self-care and remain alert to your gut feelings. Draw on your instincts; they are often your most reliable guide. Infidelity not only devastates trust but also affects the emotional health of those involved. If you suspect your partner is becoming distant, take heed of these signs before the situation escalates. Women must empower themselves by valuing their intuition and well-being above all. Always stay aware—your heart and sanity depend on it. Remember, love should never mean turning a blind eye to red flags.
I went through this but I didnt let my husband get away with it!!! I am one person people should never cross especially in the heart! I put tracking devices in his car, sound recorders, then rented a car and followed him daily taking pictures of the girls he was sleeping with! I used another phone to terrorize him, pretending to be the girls ex-boyfriend and that I was going to beat him to death! Then I put notes on his car that said call me I’m pregnant! I tortured him with all kinds of crazy stuff made him crazy. Then I posted all the pictures on his Facebook because I broke into it and put them everywhere for all of his friends to see, and he was the type that had high profile friends. You know what I mean! Then I destroyed his girlfriend’s jobs. Lives in pretty much put the pictures of them up on their social media as well. Yes, I’m pretty good at hacking! I even made him believe he had AIDS scared him. It was so much fun payback as hell don’t mess with me! And in the end in the divorce, I took him for hundreds of thousands of dollars yes, I did. I dare someone to cheat on me!