On this day I will be free from this evil person..

Going through the process of divorce can feel like an emotional rollercoaster, especially when the relationship has been toxic or abusive. I remember waking up each day feeling trapped and powerless, drowning in feelings of despair and frustration. What kept me going was the hope of freedom and a better life beyond the pain. For me, the turning point was realizing that staying in the marriage was damaging my mental health more than escaping it ever could. The word ‘evil’ might feel strong, but sometimes it’s the right one to describe the deep hurt caused by someone’s words and actions. Divorce isn’t just a legal process — it’s a personal battle for reclaiming your identity and self-worth. I found tremendous strength in leaning on friends, seeking counseling, and immersing myself in healing practices like meditation and journaling. Sharing my story within supportive communities, especially those with similar experiences such as #wlw groups, also helped me feel validated and less alone. If you’re facing something similar, remember that the pain is temporary and healing is possible. Take each day as it comes, give yourself permission to grieve, and celebrate small victories. One day, you’ll look back and see how far you’ve come — not just as someone who escaped a toxic relationship, but as a stronger, more empowered person ready to embrace new beginnings.