I feel like im stuck

I’m the youngest child in my family and I live in a pretty small town so the resources are very limited and scarce. I’ve decided to go down the psychology path and just see what happens next but it feels like my family and school are trying to keep me in a box. Every time I talk about going to college they just say “who’s gonna take care of the things I do around the house” and talk me down to try and make me stay but it makes me want to leave even more

I try to talk to the guidance counselor and the principals and all I get is “I’ll look into it” which I get they may be busy with others but there’s at least 15-20 seniors in my graduating class and I’ve been asking since school started.

I low key want to live alone since Ive grown up with no boundaries, no personal space, and being around people who put all their weight and responsibilities onto me. If I have to bike 600 miles a day just for peace of mind, I will do it if it’s in Gods will.

Any advice or great college suggestions will be greatly appreciated since I’m basically by myself

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2025/2/12 Edited to

Many young adults face similar challenges, especially those from small towns with limited resources. If you're interested in psychology and neuroscience, researching colleges that offer strong programs in these areas is crucial. Consider factors such as program reputation, faculty expertise, and internship opportunities in your search. When it comes to dorm rooms, universities often provide virtual tours and pictures to help prospective students visualize their living conditions. Furthermore, it's essential to seek assistance from academic advisors and look into online forums for shared experiences from fellow students. Independence is vital during this transitional phase. Start by setting clear boundaries with family members, emphasizing your needs for personal space and support. Finding a supportive network outside of your immediate family can help you navigate this journey, whether through friends, mentors, or online communities focused on college readiness. Remember, pursuing your dreams is a valid aspiration, and having aspirations beyond your current situation is a powerful motivator for growth and change.

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BethAnne

Do what is best for you. Even if that means you have to do all the leg work to get the info you want. If you know what college you want to attend go check it out. You may even be able to talk to a counselor there that can help and you can get students perspective as well. Check out scholarships as well. As for you Mom asking you who’s going to do what you do around the house if you leave? She is……the end. Also check into online classes offered at the college you want to attend, and check into jr. colleges as well.You can go two years and get your AA degree in your field and then go to the larger college for the last two years to get your BA. Do it for you……you won’t regret it.

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