Baby Daddy/Momma Spread
The emotional ribbon that was still attached to my ex and his family was still there after divorce. Whereas I didn't realize that was the reason I could not get past their antics, I started realizing that after 10 years of brainwashing and manipulation I was still attach without physically being involved with them. I realized all of the arguments that when unfinished where still pent up in my subconscious and in my emotional response to them. So am I stuck in that mindset forever? Not this queen! I went to what I know would give me relief in the long run... My Spirituality and Spiritual Gifts. I remembered I am able to ask my paternal and maternal ancestors message to me, just as important I also consult my children's hearts. Lastly, I ask for guidance on whether my approach is helping or hurting. After my ancestors have spoken, I close my eyes and imagine the whole family on a boat with a ribbon attached to my heart. With each breath out I blow the boat further and further out of sight. With each breath in I imagine the ribbon dissolving. I did this until the ribbon was completely gone and so was him and his family. As I continue to do this, now in preparation for their presence in any form, I have realized the antics need boundaries but I no longer need to give the explanation. Free Yourself and dissolve the Ribbon! Stand up and make your boundaries knowing that your explanation is a luxury to them. Your peace is precious 💕 and so are those children protect them. 👑
#parenting #spirituality #boundaries #inspiration #meditation
Navigating post-divorce emotions can be overwhelming, especially when dealing with lingering attachments to an ex and their family. It's crucial to acknowledge these feelings and understand that they often stem from unresolved conflicts and manipulation over time. Developing healthy boundaries is essential for emotional healing. Engaging in practices such as meditation can aid in visualizing the release of emotional cords. For instance, envisioning a boat carrying those attachments away while deep breathing can facilitate emotional freedom. Consulting spiritual beliefs and the wisdom of ancestors can provide further guidance on this journey. Protecting your inner peace is paramount, especially when children are involved. Empowering yourself with strategies for boundary-setting ensures that you prioritize your wellbeing and that of your children. Self-care and spirituality can be powerful allies in this process, reminding you that your mental space deserves as much respect as any relationship. Take the time to explore these avenues and reclaim your peace.