70th birthday is called ‘Chil-Soon’ 칠순 in Korea. My sis and I cooked for her Chil Soon party with her church family. On the menu was Galbijjim (braised short ribs), Stir-fried seafoods, Japchae (Stir-fried glass noodles), Freshly cut live fluke sashimi, Salmon sashimi, Spicy gochujang vinaigrette salad with fried dumplings, orange fennel salad, Chwinamul (Aster scaber), Doraji namul (Platycodon), kimchi, Fruit board, Korean honey rice cakes, chocolate covered strawberries and fresh cream cakes.
Chil-Soon, or 칠순 as it's written in Korean, isn't just any birthday; it marks a truly significant milestone – a 70th birthday celebration! In Korean culture, reaching 70 is a profound achievement, a time when family gathers to honor the elder, celebrate their long life, and express deep gratitude for their wisdom and enduring presence. It's a testament to a life well-lived, embodying respect for longevity, strong family bonds, and the veneration of one's parents and grandparents. This celebration is a vibrant expression of filial piety and community spirit. While a lavish spread of delicious food is undeniably central, as beautifully captured by 'Everything we made for Mom's 70th Birthday Party,' a Chil-Soon often extends beyond the menu. It involves cherished traditions like younger generations performing sebae (a deep bow) to the celebrated elder, offering blessings for continued health and happiness. It’s also common for guests to present gifts, often gold or cash, symbolizing wishes for prosperity and well-being, acknowledging the elder's contributions to the family. Special attire, like traditional hanbok, is often worn by the honored individual and close family members to enhance the festive atmosphere and respect for tradition. When my sister and I planned our mom's Chil-Soon, we wanted every detail to reflect our immense love and appreciation. We knew the food had to be exceptional, a true feast for her and her church family, making her feel incredibly special and cherished. We meticulously chose classic dishes like Galbijjim (braised short ribs), symbolizing prosperity and good fortune, and Japchae (stir-fried glass noodles), representing a long and healthy life with its lengthy strands. The fresh sashimi (linking to '회일들' from OCR, which often refers to raw fish dishes) added a touch of elegance and luxury, a nod to special occasions. The vibrant array of namul (seasoned vegetable side dishes) brought both color and vital nutrients to the festive table, balancing the richness of the other dishes. We also included unique items like spicy gochujang vinaigrette salad with fried dumplings and refreshing orange fennel salad, showing both traditional roots and a modern twist. And for dessert? Korean honey rice cakes, chocolate-covered strawberries, and fresh cream cakes ensured a 'Happy' and sweet ending – the entire spread was, as we excitedly declared, absolutely 'Bussin!' – a true labor of love in the kitchen that everyone thoroughly enjoyed. For anyone considering hosting a Chil-Soon for their beloved elder, my personal advice is to prioritize their preferences while honoring the rich traditions. Start by discussing with them if they prefer a grand, elaborate celebration or a more intimate family gathering. Involve family and friends in the planning, cooking, and decorating; it not only eases the workload but also creates shared memories and strengthens family bonds. Remember, the heart of Chil-Soon is about celebrating a life, showing profound respect, and fostering strong, intergenerational family connections. Seeing the pure joy on Mom's face as she celebrated her Chil-Soon surrounded by delicious food and cherished loved ones was truly priceless. It’s a tradition I now cherish even more and hope others can embrace with the same warmth and respect.





































































































My mom turned 70 last year and she didn’t want us to do anything for her. Which we understood, she was freshly grieving our dad who died in January 2025 and would have turned 70 himself in April. This year I am going to make a big deal out of 71 for my mom.