👇Not sure where I fit in …

I’m not a working mom and I’m not a SAHM.

Or I’m both?

I relate quite a bit to stay at home moms and follow so many on various socials because I stay home with my kiddos. They are not in day care. I am the one responsible for their day to day activities, their meals, their appointments, etc. However when my husband finishes working, we swap. I head upstairs for the evening (and weekends) to work my full time, remote job.

That’s why often I just can’t take some of the SAHM advice. I work till around midnight, so I really don’t have the option of going to bed early and waking up before my kids wake up to get that time to myself and prep for the day.

I never know what to say when people ask me what I do. I feel like I have two jobs. I instinctively want to say I stay at home with my girls, but that completely discounts the 40 hours a week I put in just like “everyone else”.

Also doing both of these things full time just makes me feel like I’m not putting my all into either of them.

I guess I just don’t feel like I fit in anywhere. Working moms can’t relate to me, but neither can the SAHM.

Anyone else out there in the same boat?

#lemon8parenting #parentsoflemon8 #parentingtips #lemon8parents #sahm #workingmom

@Lemon8Parenting

2024/4/30 Edited to

... Read moreBeing a parent is a fulfilling yet complex journey, especially for those who juggle multiple roles. Understanding how to balance the responsibilities of caregiving while working from home is an ongoing challenge faced by many. Working parents often experience feelings of isolation when they don't completely fit into the defined roles of stay-at-home or working moms. This duality can lead to self-doubt and confusion about identity. To bridge this gap, it’s essential to connect with others in the same situation. Seeking support from online communities or forums can provide both practical advice and emotional solidarity. Utilizing platforms that focus on parenting, such as Lemon8, allows parents to share their experiences and exchange tips tailored to those navigating similar paths. Moreover, organizing daily routines that prioritize quality time with children while ensuring work commitments are met can help alleviate feelings of inadequacy. Techniques such as time-blocking and setting clear boundaries can enhance productivity without sacrificing family time. The key is to remember that every parent's journey is unique and it’s okay not to fit into predefined categories. Engaging with fellow parents allows for shared stories and strategies that not only validate your experience but also cultivate a supportive environment for everyone involved.

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aww hey girly I'm in a similar situation- I'm a sahm & after our girl gets to bed around 7pm, I do my catching up with social media friends & also do some "work" for an online boutique I represent so I try preparing things to share for that. Then I read my current book or watch tv to unwind then sleep late 😂

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