Cameron Rogers' perspective on 'Stop Parenting Your Partner' really hit home for me, and I can see why it sparked so much discussion. The idea of being a 'married, single parent' is something many of us, myself included, have either experienced or witnessed firsthand. It’s a tough reality to face, and it certainly affects our mental health when we feel like we're constantly 'babying our partners' instead of sharing responsibilities with 'grown ass adults.' When I first heard her talk about how crucial it is to consider how a partner will 'show up as a parent and a partner in the household' before having 'kids in the future,' it resonated deeply. For anyone 'single or dating,' this truly is the number one thing to think about. It's not just about finding a good person; it's about finding someone who's ready for equal partnership, not just to be a 'great dad' but also a 'great husband' – someone who actively participates in all aspects of family life. So, 'HOW TO STOP PARENTING YOUR GROWN PARTNER'? It’s easier said than done, but it starts with open and honest communication. I've learned that resentment builds quickly when expectations aren't aligned. One practical step I've found helpful is creating a clear division of labor, not just for childcare but for household management generally. It’s not about assigning chores, but about acknowledging that both partners are equally responsible for the smooth running of the home and family. This means anticipating needs, not just reacting to requests. Another angle to this 'controversy' is the impact on personal fulfillment. Cameron highlights that our ability to enjoy our experience as an individual, a mother, and in our career after having children is so tied to how our partner shows up. I completely agree. When one partner carries the mental load for everything, it's exhausting and leaves little room for personal growth or joy. We deserve to fulfill ourselves as individuals, not just as caregivers. If you're feeling like you're in this 'married, single parent' situation, remember you're not alone. It's an issue that affects countless women, and it’s time we talk about it more openly. Setting boundaries, advocating for your needs, and possibly seeking external support (like therapy or couples counseling) are all valid strategies. It’s about cultivating a relationship where both partners are 'grown ass adults' who contribute equally, allowing each other to thrive.