Cheers to 34 and more ❤️🌈
Thank you, everyone, for all the birthday wishes this year. And thank you to everyone who carved out time and space to celebrate me. I’ve never been huge on celebrating but I’m learning to appreciate it the past couple years.
I used thirty-three to be free. I needed to be on my own to focus on myself. It was a year of ups and downs; I questioned what I wanted in life because I have always been reminded to never settle for less. Reflecting back, I didn’t achieve all that I wanted but I did learn that I don’t need anyone to nourish me but myself. Everyone else’s love is just in addition (and appreciated). Also, what fun would it be to have achieved everything I wanted? That would make this journey predictable and boring.
All these years I have put so much love and care into everyone else. I’ve learned that it’s okay to allow others to do the same for me. Because to love is to share with each other what is most alive inside of you. No one is unloveable is what grief has taught me all these years. I’m moving onto Level 34 this next year with the notion that it’s okay to grieve the loss of my life as I once knew it as it will allow me to celebrate the growth of my life to come.
Cheers to 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐲-𝐟𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞. ❤️
‘𝑖𝑡’𝑠 𝑏𝑒𝑒𝑛 𝑎 𝑙𝑜𝑛𝑔 𝐷𝑒𝑐𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒’𝑠 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑒𝑣𝑒 𝑚𝑎𝑦𝑏𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑦𝑒𝑎𝑟 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑏𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑙𝑎𝑠𝑡’
Turning thirty-four marks not just another year but a significant milestone of reflection and growth. It's a time to appreciate the life experiences that shape us, the relationships we cultivate, and the challenges we navigate. Celebrations, whether grand or simple, serve as reminders of the love we share and the support from those around us. During this transition, one may feel tempted to measure success with worldly achievements, but true fulfillment stems from understanding ourselves and recognizing the importance of self-love. As we age, it becomes clearer that each year brings new lessons and opportunities for introspection. Transitioning into a new age can evoke various emotions, including nostalgia and excitement. It's natural to mourn the past while simultaneously looking forward to what lies ahead. This duality can lead to a greater appreciation for growth and transformation in our lives. Embracing change and being open to new experiences are crucial components of a fulfilling life. Transformative events teach resilience and the beauty of unpredictability. They shape our perspectives, allowing us to grow wiser and more compassionate, both towards ourselves and others. Remember, every birthday is a chance to reassess our goals, realign our priorities, and set intentions for the future. At 34, let’s celebrate not only the years gone by but the potential that lies within us. Embrace this new chapter, nurture relationships that uplift you, and continue to learn from each experience. Cheers to 34 and more adventures in life ahead!