Pregnancy is a deeply personal and transformative experience, especially for transmen who choose to give birth. From my own journey and those shared by members of the trans community, I’ve learned that the emotional and physical challenges of pregnancy do not define your identity or your worth. Many transmen express concerns about dysphoria—the distress caused by a disconnect between one’s gender identity and physical body changes during pregnancy. It’s important to recognize that dysphoria can fluctuate, often easing as you bond with your child and reclaim your sense of self. This process is different for everyone, and it’s essential to allow yourself the space and time to heal. Practically, having a trusted support system and a safe space to store valuables like cards and phones can help reduce stress during this time. Simple steps like keeping important items locked away ensure peace of mind and let you focus on your well-being. Remember, choosing to carry and birth a child doesn’t make you any less of a transman—it highlights your strength and love. The journey involves ups and downs, but ultimately it’s about choosing yourself and celebrating the unique path you are on. Surround yourself with affirming people and resources that honor your experience. Your story adds invaluable visibility and hope to the community. For those thinking about pregnancy or actively navigating it, know that you are strong enough to bear the children you choose to bring into the world, and when it’s time, you’ll get back to business—living authentically and powerfully as yourself.