been waking up every day with a lot of work anxiety and haven’t been sleeping well bc of it 🥲

Wanted to do an extra cozy routine to help destress. It helped a little bit to get my mind off of my stressors. I’m such an introvert and presenting in front of clients/partners always causes me to stress before for days. Any tips for those of yall who have overcame this fear or public speaking? It feels so irrational but my mind and body do not care.

Hope yall have an amazing Tuesday 🫶🏼

#workfromhome #wfh #big4 #accounting #accountant

2025/10/22 Edited to

... Read moreYou know, as an introvert, especially when you're deep into work from home mode, every little sound can feel amplified. It's not just about a preference for quiet; it's about how much our brains process external stimuli. That's why even something as small as a ringtone can contribute to daily stress, especially for those of us navigating demanding roles like being a *Big 4 accountant*. I've certainly felt that overwhelm, where the constant pings and interruptions just add to my work anxiety and make it harder to wind down at night. When I started really focusing on my environment to destress, I realized sound played a huge role. It's not just about picking the best ringtone for introvert — it's about curating an entire soundscape that supports calm and focus. For me, that means gentle, non-jarring phone alerts. I've switched all my work notifications to silent or vibration-only during focused work blocks, and my personal ringtone is a soft, melodic tune. It might sound trivial, but avoiding that sudden, loud jolt throughout the day significantly reduces my baseline stress levels. Beyond just ringtones, I’ve found a few other strategies incredibly helpful for creating a sanctuary while *working from home*: Noise-Cancelling Headphones: These are a lifesaver. Whether it's the dog barking next door or a sudden household noise, slipping these on creates an instant bubble of calm. I use them not just for meetings, but for focused work periods. Ambient Soundscapes: Sometimes silence can feel too stark. I often put on instrumental music, lo-fi beats, or nature sounds (rain, distant thunder) in the background. There are tons of free apps and YouTube channels for this. It fills the space with something pleasant but non-distracting, which helps keep anxiety at bay. Scheduled "Quiet Hours": Since I'm a Big 4 accountant and my job demands a lot of communication, I actively block out "do not disturb" times in my calendar. During these periods, I silence all notifications. This helps me get into a flow state and reduces the constant feeling of being 'on call.' It’s about setting boundaries, even in your own home. Mindful Notification Management: Do you really need a notification for every email or team message? I've gone through my app settings and turned off all but the most crucial alerts. Less noise, less mental clutter, less *stress*. These small changes might seem minor, but collectively, they make a huge difference in managing the daily grind, especially when dealing with public speaking prep or client presentations. By reducing sensory overload from sound, I feel more grounded and less anxious, which helps me sleep better and approach challenging tasks with a clearer head. It’s all part of building that "cozy routine" to destress and reclaim a bit of peace in a hectic work from home life.

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Discovering_The_Foothills

I can relate and this inspired me. The only problem is I do a lot of zoom calls & record myself. The background has to look equally good. Cant seen to pull it together yet this has me inspired. Gorgeous!

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Allison Brown

As a fellow accountant that works from home, I completely understand and feel your stress and anxiety. Your office is so calm and cozy. I try to make mine but my dogs like to make a WWE wrestling ring. My biggest issue is staying focused, I have such attention deficit problems that staying on track and focused the entire is a struggle from hell.

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