Even if they dont know i exist 😭😭😭

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... Read moreUnrequited love—the feeling of loving someone who doesn’t know you exist or who does not return your feelings—is a common emotional experience that can deeply affect mental well-being. Many people struggle to move on, holding on to hope or memories that make it difficult to heal. It is important to acknowledge that the process of moving on takes time and self-compassion. When people tell you to move on, it might feel dismissive because the emotions are still vivid and raw. The key to healing lies in understanding and accepting your feelings rather than suppressing them. Taking deliberate steps such as expressing your emotions through journaling or talking to trusted friends can help clarify your thoughts. Engaging in activities that foster self-growth and happiness can gradually create new positive associations and reduce emotional dependence on that person. Setting boundaries by limiting triggers—such as social media or places associated with the person—can also aid the healing process. Professional counseling can provide strategies tailored to your situation, helping you gain insights into your emotions and building resilience. Remember, thinking about someone every day is part of human attachment, but with time, support, and intentional self-care, it's possible to reclaim your happiness and open up to new meaningful relationships.

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