I Got my Heart broken Today y’all 🙂
Im nit gonna act like I didn’t see it coming. When I kind have been preparing myself for it to come but when it did, it came so suddenly and I little heart almost gave out. No joke I felt slightly dizzy and my heart kind of like skipped a beat. I don’t know what to think anymore. I been in this situationship for a while and I one thing I know about myself is that I fall hard and quick. And I did for this guy. HARD. But what I realize is that when I ask for general communication in the relationship, it becomes an argument and something that feels like a burden to him and if the slightest means of communication is so hard for someone to do, then what’s the point. You can’t have a relationship without communication. Even though I knew all these things, I knew all the answers, I stayed. Because I was falling more and more for him and I don’t know why. I also have this tendency to go through anxious attachment style but that’s another story. I work on it but I this hurts guys not gonna lie. How do you all deal with situationship breakups or breakups in general? Let me know? #embracevulnerability #Lemon8Diary #shareyourthoughts #storytime #situationship #love #selflove #selfcare #chooseme #heartbreak
Heartbreak can feel overwhelming, especially when you've invested emotions in a situationship. Understanding why these feelings arise is essential. Situationships often lack clear boundaries, which can lead to confusion and emotional distress. Communication is crucial; without it, misunderstandings can escalate into conflicts, leaving one partner feeling unsupported. If you recognize anxious attachment styles in yourself, it's key to address these fears to gain control over your emotions. Practicing self-care during this turbulent time can be incredibly beneficial. Engage in activities that promote well-being – whether it's journaling your thoughts, talking with friends, or seeking professional guidance. Remember, it's okay to grieve the connection. Allow yourself time to heal and reflect on what you truly want in a relationship. Having a support system plays a critical role too; sharing your feelings can lighten the load and provide new perspectives. Lastly, take this experience as a lesson in self-discovery. What did you learn about your needs and boundaries in a relationship? Use this knowledge to foster healthier connections in the future, ultimately leading to more fulfilling romances.
First you’re going to want to make boundaries for yourself and really stick to them (relationship boundaries) if you need to wallow then there’s no shame in that. Definitely work on yourself and learn how to prioritize your feelings, if the person you’re dating isn’t prioritizing your feelings (as well as their own)