... Read moreYou know those days when 'this too shall pass' feels less like a comforting mantra and more like a cruel joke? I totally get it. We've all been there, facing a situation that just makes you throw your hands up and think, 'Holy f*ck, how am I going to get through this?' It’s in those moments, when the waves of life feel like they’re crashing down, beautiful yet relentless, that our resolve is truly tested.
I remember looking at a vibrant blue and turquoise ocean wave once, and it just hit me. It was powerful, immense, and fleeting all at once. That's exactly how life's toughest challenges can feel. One minute you're trying to stay afloat, the next you're caught in an undertow of doubt and frustration. The phrase "this too shall pass" is a beacon, a tiny flicker of hope, but sometimes you need more than just hope; you need grit, determination, and a strong dose of self-compassion.
For me, being a #strongwomen isn't about never falling, but about how you pull yourself back up, even when every fiber of your being wants to give up. It’s about acknowledging the 'holy f*ck' moments, letting yourself feel that intense frustration, and then, slowly but surely, finding your footing again. Sometimes it’s about a deep breath, sometimes it's leaning on your support system, and sometimes it's just putting one foot in front of the other, stubbornly refusing to be defeated.
We often think we need grand gestures to overcome obstacles, but truthfully, it’s the small, consistent actions that make the biggest difference. It's the decision to #getitdone, even when motivation is nowhere to be found. It’s the quiet strength that whispers, 'You've got this,' even when your mind is screaming otherwise. And yes, sometimes it’s allowing yourself to swear a little (or a lot!) because sometimes that's the only way to release the intensity of the moment.
So, if you’re reading this and feeling like you're drowning in a 'blue wave' of challenges, remember that you’re not alone. This isn't just about 'this too shall pass' as a passive statement; it's an active declaration of endurance. It's about recognizing the struggle, honoring your feelings, and then tapping into that incredible inner strength that allows you to ride out the storm. We are #determined, we are resilient, and yes, this too will pass. But until then, it's okay to feel the 'holy f*ck' of it all.