any suggestions or words of encouragement would be helpful 😭😭😭 ILYLAS and remember, first things first - I’m first! ™️ #firstthingsfirstimfirst #momof3 #momsintheir30s #momhelp #pacifierweaning
As a mom who has also navigated the ups and downs of pacifier weaning, I completely understand how stressful it can feel when your toddler seems to regress despite previous progress. My eldest gave up the pacifier around 15 months without much fuss, but my younger one held on tight—especially during teething, when comfort needs are heightened. One thing I learned is that patience and consistency are key. Toddlers often use their pacifiers to soothe pain and anxiety, and when new siblings and family dynamics come into play, it can trigger a desire to hold on even more tightly. It helped me to introduce gradual changes, such as limiting pacifier use to nap and bedtime only, just as mentioned in the post. This approach respects their attachment while encouraging healthier oral habits and language development. Another valuable tip is involving your support network to maintain consistent messaging—not rushing into sudden removal, especially if you're managing multiple kids simultaneously. I also found distraction techniques useful—offering favorite toys, engaging in lots of play, and praising my child for small milestones helped transition away from the pacifier gently. Lastly, don’t forget the importance of self-care. As the author wisely stated, “first things first—I’m first” resonates so much. Taking moments for yourself allows you to recharge and provide the calm guidance your child needs during challenging times. Remember, every child's pace is unique, and regression is a natural part of development. Sharing experiences in mom forums and support groups made a big difference for me—knowing I'm not alone made the journey feel less daunting. Keep encouraging yourself as much as your little one.

































































