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Forget someone...How hard is it? For a while, a heart that may not lie to itself.

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Forget someone...How hard is it? For a while, a heart that may not lie to itself.

Sometimes the stories that really hit us are not global events, but simple conversations of two people.

Recently, I had the opportunity to hear a story on your Tikal channel, "Teacher Xiao Chan," a clip of a conversation about two Chinese men talking about "love." It was just a short phrase, but it had such a deep meaning that I felt that I couldn't just let it go and share it so that my friends or anyone who had seen the article could try to read and review the feelings at the same time.

The story begins when the first man asks himself a question that many believe to have posed...

"Forgetting someone...Is it hard? "

It was a short question that seemed to need only "hard" or "not hard," but another man answered it with a sentence that stopped the audience and let the feeling work.

He replied that...

"How can a person who has entered his heart stop sticking or cutting his heart suddenly?..

Whether found or not, miss anyway

Quit or not, still remember

Stubborn...But can't lie. "

This answer reflects the painful truth of humanity. Some memories are similar to lyrics that are deeply engraved in the feeling, or like the pages of fiction that we have finished writing, but always pick up Marie Run and read it in the heart. We may pretend to be brilliant, tell anyone (or even tell in front of the mirror) that we have a mouse-on, we have forgotten, but deep down, "We can't lie to our hearts."

People who make traces in their hearts sometimes come to remember us for the rest of our lives, it does not matter how much the status has changed today, it does not matter whether they meet each other in real life...Because they are not beside the body, but are deeply rooted to the bottom of the mind.

The area there...It's like a locked reservation, and no matter how long the days pass, this position...No one can replace it.

What about you?..Is there someone who is not by his side but remains in the bottom of his heart like this?

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