The loudest silence.

# The loudest silence # lemon 8 invites # Love, relationships

# # The loudest silence: Knowing the truth but choosing to "wait"

In the world of love...The most painful ending scene may not be an altercation or an emotional splash on each other, but it is the "silence" engulfed in an already crumbling relationship, with two people still sipping coffee and smiling at each other, as if love were still gorgeous.

# # # Cracks hidden under smile

At times, instincts work so accurately that normal relationships begin to have invisible gaps, hidden messages, closed notifications, a smile he gives to the phone screen rather than the person sitting in front of it, or unusually wary conversations...All this is the truth that vibrates in the heart.

We know that there is another person in our area. This relationship is no longer normal, but surprisingly, what we choose to do is not to scream, throttle, ask, or ask to see the phone. We choose to pour water into a glass for him, ask for redemption about work, and continue to live our daily lives.

# # # Why don't you talk? Why pretend not to know?

Outsiders may view such expressions as self-deception, or so weak that they dare not face the truth for fear of loss, but in reality, the reasons of those who choose to remain silent are simple and well crystallized:

Arguing Fatigue: Opening a confrontation means dealing with excuses, lies that are created on top of each other, or deviant behavior, which is more debilitating and annoying than the truth itself.

It's not heartbreaking, it's peace-keeping: Accepting the quiet truth in our hearts makes us go beyond the point of crying and fuming. What we need now is emotional peace, not a battleground of mud.

Protecting Life Energy: Not to diminish, pursue jealousy, or demand the love that it already shares is to save energy in preparation for moving forward in the days ahead.

# # # The clock that waits for time to walk to the end

Continuing to act normal is not to allow him to hurt us repeatedly, nor is it a miracle for him to repent, but the masterpiece of this show is to "wait for time."

We're just waiting...Waiting to appreciate that the person in front will have enough courage and maturity to be honest with his own feelings, waiting for him to honor our past good times enough to walk to the truth and end this relationship ourselves without us diminishing our dignity to pry that pathetic secret out of his mouth.

# # # Prepared summary

This love has ended since the day we knew the secret. The existence here is to watch the final scene of the play that we already know the ending.

And when the day he gathers the courage to tell the truth, there will be no requests, no snatches, and no questions, only a thin smile with the words "known a long time ago" before we walk away gracefully...Because we have dealt with regret and said goodbye from the bottom of our hearts since the first day we knew the truth.