When happiness...It's called "Simplicity."
# # When happiness...It's called "Simplicity."
> "At some point in our lives, we will start not wanting to mess with anyone, like to live a simple life, only work for money, friendship does not have to be a lot, only people who love us are comfortable."
At a young age, we may have believed that the perfect life is a life full of color, surrounded by many people, and broadly appreciated. We may have run up to expectations, sought connections, and tried to put ourselves in the brightest spots, but over time, the past experiences of happiness and suffering will gradually act like sieves, filtering out all the perturbations and turmoil that our hearts really need.
# # # A smaller but safer world
At some point in life, getting the feeling tied to someone else's story becomes a waste of energy. We become tired of drama, dialogue full of comparisons, or trying to explain ourselves to someone who is not ready to understand. We discover that retreating into our own quiet corner - the corner where we have lived slower, done what we like without competing with anyone - is the most luxurious. Our world may seem smaller in other people's eyes, but it turns out to be the most spacious and safe space for our own hearts.
♪ # # Focus on work to create "freedom" for life ♪
Turning to work and heading for money is not selfishness or enslavement of objects, but it is the creation of "stability" to buy "comfort" for ourselves and our loved ones. The real world teaches us that on the day of the storm of life, standing up with your shin is the best shield. Keeping your eyes to work quietly is not boring, but pride in seeing your life's foundation grow stronger every day.
# # # Friendships measured with "quality," not "quantity."
The long list of friends may gradually shrink, and we no longer regret it, we learn to let go of toxic relationships or superficial considerate people, because at this age we do not need hundreds of acquaintances, we only ask for a handful...A few real friends, a family, or someone who is ready to listen, sit quietly, be friends on a downbeat day, and laugh with us on small things without a mask. This sincere friendship, although small, fills a huge heart.
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After all, this choice of life is not to escape the world or to block yourself from society, it is * * "the precipitation of maturity." * *
It is when we fully understand that time and energy in life are precious and finite, so we choose to give up carrying the expectations of the entire world and embrace just "simplicity" and "the person who loves us."..Because true comfort stems not from having everything in its entirety, but from knowing what * * is unnecessary to life, and we are brave enough to let it go.
