334 followers

Follow

Follow

Follow

1/3

0 saved

19

22

STORY Time Insecurities

#storytime #lemon8contest #addressinginsecurities #Lemon8Diary #letschat #insecurities #lemon8partner

So, I am going to be honest, I truly dislike myself and I have trying to work on it but it hurts when you are never the girl approaches or asked out. It affects how you feel about self when people tell you they like you but aren’t ready for you, like what does that mean.

Idk having the surgery really has put me in my head and forced me to figure out why it is I hate the way I look and most of it has to do with me and my perception of myself.

2024/7/12 Edited to

Insecurities can often feel overwhelming, shaping our self-esteem and influencing our interactions with others. Understanding the root of these feelings is vital for healing. Many individuals experience insecurity due to societal pressures, unrealistic beauty standards, or past experiences that left scars on our self-worth. Talking about our challenges helps reduce the stigma surrounding these topics and empowers others to share their stories as well. Seeking support from friends, family, or a professional can be crucial in navigating these feelings. Remember, it's okay to seek help; every small step toward self-acceptance is significant. Engaging in activities that promote self-love, such as journaling or participating in communities, can also significantly enhance your mental well-being. Each person's journey is unique, and learning to love oneself is an ongoing process. Embrace your story, and know that you're not alone in facing these challenges.

22 comments

laila ✨ ليلى

Please sit with yourself and ask WHY you are considering surgery. Most surgeries are temporary fixes, a mindset change (and not being with toxic people) is more permanent!

See more comments

Related posts

A young woman wearing headphones and holding a light pink Stanley cup, with the overlay text "How to overcome insecurities as a Christian girly" and decorative pink bows.

A person wearing brown Ugg slippers and light-colored loungewear, sitting on a chair and holding a document with text, accompanied by the overlay text "Read what His word says about you."

A woman taking a mirror selfie, with pink sticky notes on the mirror containing biblical affirmations. Overlay text reads, "Watch what you say about yourself! Speak life into yourself..."

How to overcome insecurities as a Christian girly✨

No matter what lies you are facing today, no matter what schemes of the enemy are coming for you, no matter what thoughts are in your head about your self worth saying - you’re not pretty enough, you’re not good enough, no matter what it is… you are going to tackle them with the truth of God’s word

1670 likes

Girl insecurities that make you look gorgeous🍋🫶🌸✨

Pt.1!! I will have more parts coming soon!! Remember that u all look beautiful no matter what!! We are all humans and people with unique looks, strengths and styles! I luv every single one of u girlies! From Long hair to none, thick brows to thin, we are all amazing and it comes from a big heart w

217 likes

Ranking my insecurities

1548 likes

A side-by-side comparison of a woman's fitness journey, labeled 'Body Transformation'. The left shows her in a gym in yellow leggings, and the right shows her with a more defined physique in grey activewear, reflecting her progress and increased confidence.

my insecurities over weight gain.

Looking back, I’m so grateful I decided to take control of my health and fitness. There was a time when I felt insecure about my weight, and it impacted my confidence. But instead of staying in that mindset, I chose to make a change for myself. Every workout, every choice to prioritize my well-bein

1074 likes

Avoidant Insecurities

Avoidants are always moving in protection of self. You take it as a personal attack because it’s hurting your feelings but it was never about you. It was always about them not allowing people to get too close. Because being too close means that you could “find them out.”

8 likes

My insecurities..

Yes this is real, I moved the original x’s to the spots I wanted them to be at!

9 likes

UNBIG MY insecurities with me| goodbye love handles & cellulite

Okayyyy let’s get into it girl UNBIG MY insecurities with me goodbye love handles & cellulite puuuulzzzzzz First things first: love handles + cellulite are normal, But my goal is to tone, tighten, and feel more confident 👙☺️. we can’t spot-reduce, but we can shrink those areas overa

18 likes

Rose, work on your insecurities

Nothing, nothing goes away. It’ll surely pop up at another time. Insecurities can show up in friendships, your service to God, and romantic relationships. The word insecurity is not a positive word. Christ’s grace can be glorified in our weakness; yet he also gives us the power to overcome thro

12 likes

Inconsistency causes insecurities and relationship

#lemon8diarychallenge #relationshipadvice #embracevulnerability

11 likes

An overhead view of a person with dark hair, wearing a dark top, kneeling with arms spread over papers on a clear table. The text reads "Confidence vs. Insecurity: Choose Your Power" and "UNDERSTANDING THE DIFFERENCE AND HOW TO EMBRACE YOUR CONFIDENT SELF."

A white background with black text. The title "REAL TALK:" is followed by a paragraph introducing the topic of confidence and insecurity, and how the post will discuss their differences and how to move from insecurity to confidence.

A white background with black text. The title "What Does Confidence Looks Like?" is followed by a list of four characteristics: Positive Self-Talk, Self-Belief, Setting Boundaries, and Self-Care as a Priority.

CONFIDENCE VS. INSECURITIES 💄

Are you ready to break free from insecurity and step into the most confident version of yourself? Confidence isn’t just about looking good; it’s about feeling good and trusting yourself, no matter what! 💖 In this post, I’m diving into the signs of confidence vs. insecurity, how each shows up in our

215 likes

Insecurities that are beautiful 🤍

Girls or guys whoever is reading this please don’t be ashamed of who you are. God made you perfect in his image so don’t try to change that for anybody. Keep in mind I take request so if you have any more of these insecurities that you would want me to post about just let me know or different post

184 likes

Melanin so rich it’s taxing your insecurities.

#MelaninOnTheMove #BlackIsLuxury #AfricanFashionVibes #RunwayRoyalty #CultureWrappedInCouture .

262 likes

learning to not waste time on insecurities🌻🤎

It soooo was not worth the 15 mins I sat in the car STRESSING over 2 zits on my chin. Did I live even though I couldn’t cover them? Yes. Did one single person point them out or stare at my chin? NOPE. I can almost promise you that the thing you are sooo insecure about is not nearly as

144 likes

Part two of exposing my insecurities

#christiancreator #creatorlemon8 #creatorstory #creatorcommunity #christian #christianlifestyle #christiancommunitytiktok #christiangirlies #christianlife #christiangirl

598 likes

people who point out your “insecurities” are sad

people who point out your “insecurities” are INSECURE DAY 27/31 Posting My Thoughts 💭 (FULL VIDEO IN MY YOUTUBE: MISUNDERSTOOD INTROVERTED BLACK GIRL) #unapologeticallyyourself #healing #insecuritiesnomore #hatersaremymotivators #hatersbackoff

6 likes

How to cut insecurities?

Okay girlies I need some advice! Not to sound cocky but I know I’m not an ugly woman but I still find myself talking down about my appearance… How does one gain confidence without the validation of others? My husband constantly gives me reassurance and tries his best to make me feel good. Could it

5 likes

what has helped you get over some insecurities?

i think being realistic has helped me a lot. when i first saw this pic i absolutely loved it until i looked closer and saw i don’t like how dark my eye bags look. realistically though, almost everyone has something going on with their eye bags! it’s normal! what about you ? #letschat

220 likes

Let’s talk about my insecurities 🥴

#insecurities #asmr #droptheinsecurities

42 likes

Everyone has insecurities, and that’s OK💕

It’s hard being a woman 🥲 These are some of the things that I feel insecure about or thing that people have tried to make me feel due to many reasons. Have you had a similar experience?? #girltalk #thirtyandthriving #blackwomen #lifestylelemon8creator #lemon8challenge

954 likes

Part one of exposing my insecurities

#christiancreator #creatorlemon8 #creatorstory #creatorcommunity #christian #christianlifestyle #christiancommunitytiktok #christiangirlies #christianlife #christiangirl

197 likes

REAL TALK: vent abt ur insecurities

let’s uplift each other in the comments, share an insecurity and uplift someone else who commented! i would say i’m insecure about my level of intelligence. i feel like people think i’m smart but ive made so many mistakes that go against that idea. silly mistakes that i feel like most ppl woul

905 likes

Beautiful insecurities 🥰😊

say it back if you like me smile!!🥰🥰🤞

20 likes

𝘼𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙛𝙪𝙚𝙡 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙞𝙣𝙨𝙚𝙘𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨:

〰️〰️〰️〰️ Save this for later! ✘ Comparing yourself to others ✘ Only focusing on your flaws ✘ Being around people who tear you down ✘ Speaking unkindly about others ✘ Setting unrealistic expectations ✘ Constantly seeking approval from others ✘ Holding onto limiting beliefs 𝘼𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙧

15 likes

Can you guess what my insecurities are?

Hey loves 🤭🩷 I'm curious to see what stands out as my flaws. Somedays I really dislike my face and I'm wondering how noticeable my insecurities are and if other people notice them as much as I do. Please be brutally honest! I'm on a journey of self love and trying to ground myself more

49 likes

A smiling young woman with dark hair and sunglasses on her head, wearing a black dress, against a scenic outdoor background. The image features text overlay "Insecurities... You should be PROUD of," setting the theme for embracing perceived flaws.

A young woman with long dark hair, wearing a white floral crop top, wide-leg jeans, and a face mask, standing outdoors. The image highlights the text "Short height," encouraging pride in one's stature.

A close-up of a woman's face with dark skin and long dark hair, looking towards the camera. The image features the text "Dark skin," promoting self-acceptance and pride in one's complexion.

Insecurities…you should be PROUD of

#insecurities #droptheinsecurities #beautifulinsecurities #beproud #embracethesethings

9 likes

Uplifting Reminder March 13th - Insecurities 🍋

I know we all struggle with insecurities. I sure know I do! It’s a great blessing to know that God loves the fatherless. He will always show up for me and you 💛 He will NEVER leave your side no matter what you’re going through; he is always with you 🥹 #dailyreminder #devotional #faithjo

6 likes

Insecurities I Find Beautiful

You are all beautiful, don’t forget that 💖 #beautifulinsecurities #beautifulself #beautifulness #beautiful

1131 likes

Insecurities, I found beautiful

#beautifulinsecurities #insecurities #fypシ゚viral

2 likes

Girl talk! Body insecurities!

I literally will cover up my belly button area because I hate the fact I have hyperpigmentation, with ingrown hair under it. And I don’t know how to resolve it🥴🙂. #girlssupportinggirls #beautifulinsecurities #girltalktime #insecurityrevealed #bodypigmentation

32 likes

Don't let others insecurities get to you 🫶

#CapCut #creator #creatorprogram #fypシ゚viral #Lemon8

6 likes

SHEIN try on haul|breaking my insecurities

Outfits on my midsized body as a mom of two is not easy for me to share but it’s apart of my journey🤍 #embracevulnerability #unfiltered #SHEIN #Lemon8Diary

2 likes

✨Overcome Your Insecurities✨

We live in an imperfect world where an image of (false) perfection is continually being pushed… 📺 It’s extremely easy to compare yourself, your achievements, body, etc. to others when all you need to compare them to is YAHUSHA HAMASHIACH! 👆🏽☁️ 🎯 HE alone is the target and mark that we should str

14 likes

overcoming insecurities as a Christian🎀🌷💕

#lemon8diarychallenge #christian #christiangirl #christianlifestyle #christianmotivation #christiangirlaesthetic #jesusfreak #jesuslovesyou #biblestudy #holygirl

9 likes

Flower Insecurities

You all look gorgeous no matter what ✨️ #beautiful🌷✨ #pretty flowers #insecurities

6 likes

See more