Goodness can't buy love! 💔✨ 10 years of love experience...
"Goodness can't buy love...Trust the doctor. "
An expensive lesson from 10 years of love, ultimately none but ourselves.
In the world of cards or astrology, many people often turn out to ask their mother with repeated questions: "Are we doing this well? Will he be sympathetic?" or "Why are we so dedicated? He doesn't love answering?"
Horoscopic answers may be varied, but the answer from the doctor's mother's "real life experience" is only one, and it is the most painful truth...Goodness is not something that can exchange love.
10 years missing with the word "do good to death."
The doctor herself was that woman who believed that "goodness wins everything" had been in love for 10 years, dedicated to compassion, caring, honest, and doing everything a good lover would do, called "doing well to death," to reinvigorate love. We deeply expected that our goodness would bind him, make him appreciate and love us in the same amount.
But the conclusion of the play is not as beautiful as in fiction...When he comes to the day of his heartbreak, or when he meets the "right" person, even if we are as good as an angel, it means nothing. 10 years of creation collapsed without a reward for good.
Separate between "heartbreak" and "love."
What the doctor mother learned and wanted to tell everyone was:
✨ goodness can only create fear or compassion.
✨ love is about feelings and chemistry.
You may be the best person in the world. Take care of him the best, but that doesn't guarantee that he will love you the most. Sometimes people choose a partner who is "with and happy," not "with, because he is so good to us that he can't leave." Using goodness holds back anyone. In the end, we only get his "heartless" body. "
Finally...Only "myself" is left.
On the day the relationship ended, what the doctor discovered was not just regret, but emptiness. We looked back and found that we were so dedicated to others that we forgot to take care of our hearts. We tied happiness to other people's feet. When they left, we fell on our feet.
But that was the turning point that lit the eye...Because on a day when there was no one left, the only person who never left us, the only person who hugged us on the day of crying and walking us up, was "ourselves."
Love yourself more than you ever loved him.
I want to tell everyone who is trying to "use goodness to exchange love" that...Enough. Stop running after other people's shadows and turn around and hug yourself.
✨ take the goodness you made him and make himself.
✨ give him the money he pays to take care of his beauty and happiness.
✨ take time to care about him and care about his health and mind.
Believe the doctor, loving yourself is not selfish, but it is the only shield that will save you from pain, because no matter who passes through or leaves, "you will always be worth it" without trying to prove it to anyone.
Love yourself as much as possible because in the end...The best friend in life is yourself. 💖
Best wishes from the doctor's mother. ✨❤