dms_and_devotionals

13 followers

Follow

Follow

Follow

1/2

0 saved

1

✨ Closure doesn’t always come with a conversation

Sometimes, God gives you peace that makes no sense to them…

but feels like freedom to you.

⠀

That’s Philippians 4:7 kind of peace — the kind that guards your heart while you heal in silence.

⠀

You don’t need their apology to move on.

You just need His presence. 🕊️

⠀

📖 “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:7

⠀

#DMsAndDevotionals #FaithBasedHealing #ChristianEncouragement #GodsPeace #LetGodHealYou

2025/11/5 Edited to

Related posts

A quote from a therapist on a light background, stating that stopping the search for closure, explanations, and apologies sets one free. It advises healing for oneself, moving on without apology, and elevating without validation, emphasizing living fully and freely.

Closure doesn’t need a conversation

It doesn’t come with an apology, an explanation, or the moment you imagined where they finally understand how deeply they hurt you. Sometimes… closure is you. It’s the day you stop waiting. The moment you realize you don’t need their permission to move on. The shift when you start choosing pe

1037 likes

Healing Requires Accountability

Let’s stop acting like silence fixes things. You can’t hurt someone, disappear, then pop back up like nothing ever happened and call it peace. That’s not healing that’s avoidance. “Pretending nothing happened” is not an apology. It’s emotional laziness. It’s hoping time will do the work your ac

905 likes

A person in jeans and heels walks through an open doorway into a bright space. Text overlay reads "3 Reasons you don't need CLOSURE the truth you need to hear" and "Swipe," indicating a multi-page post about moving on.

A white background with text advising to "Practice gratitude for the lesson" and stating "LIFE ISN'T REJECTING YOU. IT'S REDIRECTING YOU." A floral design is at the bottom.

A white background with text advising to "Set the record straight (with yourself)" and emphasizing "CLOSURE DOESN'T COME FROM THEM —IT STARTS WITH YOU." A floral design is at the bottom.

3 Reasons You Don't Need Closure

Sometimes, we trick ourselves into thinking closure is a conversation, an apology, or an explanation that will magically make the pain stop. But let me tell you something hard to hear: Closure doesn’t come from them. It comes from you. They ghosted? That’s your answer. They pulled away?

196 likes

6 things I had to learn the hard way

Some lessons don’t hit until you live through them These are the ones that changed how I move, how I think, and how I protect my peace I had to stop giving people access just because they used to know me I had to stop trying to fix things that were already draining me I had to learn that love

1069 likes

Closure isn’t always a conversation.

I don’t regret what I did out of love. I was honest. I was open. I was all in. But I won’t repeat it. The version of me who gave too much, stayed too long, and kept forgiving… is gone. May our paths never cross again. And if they do I won’t be the same. #TalkFromTheVoid #SoftGoodby

6 likes

Stop waiting for closure - give it to yourself

Most women don’t struggle because they don’t understand what happened. They struggle because it feels unfinished. And that feeling is what keeps the loop open. When someone ghosts you, they already gave you an answer: 👉 they chose not to continue 👉 they avoided accountability 👉 they were

22 likes

Cutting Ties Doesn’t Mean I Didn’t Love You

Let’s talk about the heartbreak no one prepares you for: The kind that comes from cutting off someone you once would’ve done anything for. I’ve helped people buy their first home. Held space for them during their darkest moments. Defended them when they weren’t in the room. And still—they be

129 likes

The older I get, the less I chase closure

I’m not saying I don’t believe in apology! I think it’s very important actually, but some conflicts unfortunately will have to end without one. My family relationship is very chaotic, if you saw one of my posts talking about it, you might know. For years I chase closure, an apology or somet

17 likes

Closure isn’t needed 🕊️🧿

15 likes

“You Don’t Need Closure, You Need a Side Hustle 💅🏾📉

Sis… if you had your own bag, you’d block him faster. he’s not the issue—your focus is. Drop a “💼” if you’re choosing peace, paychecks, and purpose over confusion. Note: Photos are for aesthetic purposes only. The people pictured are not related to the content or quotes. #makemoneyonline

36 likes

A woman with a voluminous, layered wig featuring dark roots and warm brown/caramel tones, styled with face-framing bangs, looking directly at the camera. The wig showcases a well-executed closure install.

A woman with a layered, two-toned wig, featuring dark roots and warm brown/caramel tones, gently touching her hair. The image highlights the texture and style of the closure wig.

A woman with a voluminous, layered wig, featuring dark roots and warm brown/caramel tones with face-framing bangs, looking to the side. The image emphasizes the full body and style of the closure install.

Love this closure install 🤎

Love this closure install 🤎 #closurewig #lacefrontalsewin #closureinstall

1983 likes

2x6 Closure Quickweave😍

Follow me on tiktok azariaah_ 💕 #weaveinstall #closure #closurequickweave #hairstyles #quickweavetutorial

2310 likes

Closure & Inner Healing

Sometimes closure doesn’t come in the form of an apology or explanation it comes from choosing peace over chaos. The most powerful healing begins when you stop looking for answers from them and start choosing yourself. 📝This is your reminder: you don’t need their permission to move forward.

730 likes

End the Cycle of Overthinking & Live in the Moment

I know you’ve been there. You finish a conversation, maybe it’s with a friend, a coworker, or even someone you’re talking to for the first time, and then... boom. You’re stuck in your head replaying every word, every expression, every little thing you said and did. It’s like a broken record, and I’

76 likes

A woman in a light top and khaki pants kneels in a public restroom, taking a mirror selfie with her phone. Overlay text reads 'HOW TO GET CLOSURE FROM YOUR EX ONCE AND FOR ALL'. Lemon8 branding is at the bottom left.

A pink graphic with white text titled 'ACCEPT THAT CLOSURE ISN'T ALWAYS SOMETHING YOU CAN BE GIVEN'. The accompanying text explains that some things about a breakup may never make sense. Lemon8 branding is included.

A pink graphic with white text titled 'UNDERSTAND THAT CLOSURE CONVERSATIONS MIGHT ONLY BRING UP MORE QUESTIONS'. The text advises that seeking answers from an ex can lead to more questions. Lemon8 branding is included.

how to get closure from your ex

once you accept that closure isn’t something you can be given, but rather something you create for yourself, it gets much easier. it’s good to get a better understanding of why the breakup happened and what was going on with your ex for sure, but not everyone gets that privilege. follow for mor

35 likes

God isn’t asking you to chase closure

On Sundays, we bloom by releasing the need for explanations we may never get. Here’s the truth that took me a while to accept: Closure doesn’t always come with an apology. It doesn’t always come with clarity. And it definitely doesn’t always come from another conversation. Sometimes closu

8 likes

The image features the title "HOW TO *ACTUALLY* GET CLOSURE FROM YOUR EX" in bold white text with a black outline, set against a street scene at dusk with cars, buildings, and a colorful sky. The bottom left corner includes "lemon8 @evxlynsteph."

A light pink background displays the heading "ACCEPT THAT CLOSURE IS NOT ALWAYS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN BE GIVEN." Below, text in a cursive-like font explains that closure conversations are important, but some things may never make sense. The footer shows "lemon8 @evxlynsteph" and "@evxlynchristine."

On a light pink background, the heading reads "UNDERSTAND THAT CLOSURE CONVERSATIONS MIGHT ONLY BRING UP MORE QUESTIONS." The text below advises that hoping for a single answer from an ex will lead to more questions if one isn't willing to create their own closure. The footer includes "lemon8 @evxlynsteph" and "@evxlynchristine."

how to actually get closure from your ex

closure comes differently to everyone. some people get blessed with a clean cut breakup that fills in all the gaps, and some people have messier breakups and need to create their own source of closure. in either case, hopefully this guide provides you with some clarity :) follow for more relatio

51 likes

How To Improve Conversation With Your Partner!

#datingtips Sometimes when you're getting to know someone new it can be hard to figure out what to talk about or even HOW to talk to each other without the awkwardness. AND NO, if there is awkwardness it doesn't mean you aren't meant to be. It's normal! There are, howe

91 likes

Healing in Quiet

Part of healing is learning to live without the apology you deserved. It’s understanding that some people lack the awareness, maturity, or courage to take accountability—and waiting for it only keeps you stuck. Healing means you stop reopening the wound just to check if it still hurts. You s

0 likes

Step by step installing lace closure wig

HD lace closure install using melt method 😍 super thin lace = flawless finish. If your lace not melting like this, try this technique. #hdlace #lacemelt #wiginstall #hdlacewig #closurewig

59 likes

6 things I had to learn the hard way

6 things I had to learn the hard way Some lessons don't hit until you live through them These are the ones that changed how I move, how I think, and how I protect my peace I had to stop giving people access just because they used to know me I had to stop trying to fix things that were alrea

7 likes

✨ Do we really need closure? In this video, I explore the truth about closure in broken relationships. Sometimes, closure doesn’t come in the form of a conversation, an apology, or a reunion. Real closure is often acceptance — acceptance that the relationship was not healthy, and that reconnecti

1 like

Closure is not always a conversation.

Closure is not always a conversation. Sometimes it is the pattern, the silence, and the effort that never came. Not every ending arrives with an explanation. #conversation #relationships #relationshiptips

0 likes

Stop waiting for closure - Give it to yourself

You don’t owe anyone a perfect version of yourself to deserve forgiveness. Read that again. Forgiveness is not a transaction. It’s not something you have to earn by being healed, composed, or “over it.” You are allowed to be messy and still deserve peace. This tree isn’t just a visual—it’

277 likes

Healthy Ways to End a Friendship

hello hello ✨welcome back to my series: How to End a Friendship! you may be surprised with some of these statements but gathered from my own experience and the research of psychologists and other professionals, i find these options to all be healthy! 1️⃣ The Gradual Fade Out if you’re afraid o

52 likes

A vibrant red neon sign stands amidst a dense green forest, displaying the bold message: 'MAYBE YOUR FINAL STAGE OF HEALING IS TELLING THEM TO FUCK OFF'. A Lemon8 watermark is in the corner.

Closure Ain’t Always Quiet 🔑ℹ️👇

Maybe your final stage of healing isn’t forgiveness wrapped in a bow. Maybe it’s fire. Maybe it’s finally saying “nah, f** you”* with your whole chest—and meaning it. Healing isn’t always soft. Sometimes it’s a holy rage. A storm clearing what silence couldn’t. Because not every chapter ends in

11 likes

What You Chose Not to Hear With time, you will understand that it wasn’t a lack of words, it was a lack of listening. You will remember every attempt I made to reach you, every conversation I started calmly, every time I tried to say “this hurts me” without raising my voice, without attacking

3 likes

Closure and Release Rituals

#ritualcandle #closure #witchtok #releasing #magick

14 likes

i want a normal conversation that doesn't involve

36 likes

A close-up of a handwritten journal page with the bold text "Closure is SELF made (not granted)" overlaying it, emphasizing the personal journey of finding closure. The word "SWIPE" is visible at the bottom right.

A person's hands are shown inside a vehicle, one on the steering wheel and the other resting on a leg, with text describing a messy breakup and the difficulty of letting go without closure.

A person's legs and feet in cargo pants and white sneakers stand on asphalt, accompanied by text about repeatedly replaying past events and finding finality only by letting go of the need for closure.

How I got closure with my ex

I have a hard time letting go of anything without closure — I have to analyze it, evaluate it, and understand it before I make peace with it But sometimes you don’t get the “I’m sorry.” Sometimes you don’t get the clarity. Closure rarely comes from anyone else’s words…it comes from you. It’s

29 likes

5x5 Closure Quickweave✨

Follow me on tiktok azariaah_ 💕 #weavehairstyles #closureinstall #fyp #wiginstall #hairstyleideas

994 likes

You Don’t Need Closure to Move On

Let’s be honest—closure doesn’t always come. Sometimes you have to give yourself the clarity they never will. You deserve peace, not confusion. Save this if you’re done waiting. Drop “I choose peace” in the comments if this hit. ⸻ #HealingWithoutClosure #EmotionalClarity #ChoosePe

655 likes

Sometimes we romanticize the past simply because it’s familiar but that doesn’t mean it’s meant for our future. Going back to an ex often means shrinking into an older version of yourself, ignoring your healing, and repeating a chapter that already hurt you once. Growth requires boundaries. Closure

9 likes

you kept waiting for an explanation, a reason, some sign that they cared enough to fight for you. but the silence said it all. they let you slip through their fingers without hesitation — and somehow, that hurt more than any goodbye. but now you know. closure doesn’t always come from a conversation

0 likes

you won’t mourn the past. things numb with time ✨ #mentalhealthmatters #quotes #journaling #writing #poetry

18 likes

Closure is a scam..

This quote hit me hard… Where always searching for answers, The biggest one is “WHY” I need to hear this… #peacequotes

8 likes

A hand holds packages of dark brown human hair bundles and a lace closure, labeled for a quickweave installation. Text indicates it's a first-time closure quickweave.

A person wears a black and white striped cape, with a foundation-colored HD cap and a black protective cap on their head, preparing for a hair installation.

A close-up shows dark wavy hair tracks being glued onto a black cap, with a lace closure being sewn down, illustrating the quickweave installation process.

Closure QW - Step by step

Closure QW using Empire pack hair . Lemme know how I did ! I must say the pack hair is taking it ya 😍 #lemon8beauty #closureinstall #quickweave

554 likes

IF YOU ARE WAITING FOR CLOSURE , THIS IS IT...

If they cared, they would’ve made it right. But the truIfth is—you don’t need their apology to heal. This is your closure. This is your permission to move on. You deserve peace more than you deserve answers. #recoveryroomwithjen #healingwithoutclosure #fyp #narcissisticabuserecovery

40 likes

here’s the thing about closure…

no response is a response. and it’s a powerful one! remember that 💗 #realtionship #closure #selfimprovement #cheater #toxicrelationship #healingjourney

36 likes

Let’s talk about:

You may find yourself searching for clarity, replaying conversations, or trying to make sense of what went wrong. Even when you do know what happened…when you’ve owned your part, asked for forgiveness, and reached out hoping for a healing conversation about how to move forward…sometimes you’re stil

1 like

HD CLOSURE WIG INSTALL 🌸

Installing my wig from Wow Angel on AliExpress! They truly never miss, this was my first purchase from this store, I’m currently filming my second purchase from them which I’ll upload for yall in a few days! Full install on my YT 🔗 in my Bio Wig Specs: 5x5 HD Closure Wig 250 % Density 26

163 likes

Hey maga it's called epistemic closure

your stuck in a loop stupid

62 likes

Do They Deserve a Second Chance? 😶

Alright, babe. Let’s sit down, get cozy, and have that conversation. You know the one..when someone who hurt you, disappointed you, or disappeared when you needed them most suddenly decides to pop back into your life like nothing ever happened. And now you’re left staring at your phone like, “Wait…

8 likes

A woman with vibrant red, curly hair, described as a 20-inch glueless closure wig, looks directly at the camera with a slight smile. She is wearing a black top and a necklace, sitting in what appears to be a car.

A woman with vibrant red, curly hair, identified as a glueless closure wig, poses with a pouty expression. She is wearing a black top and bracelets, with her arms crossed, sitting in a car.

A woman with vibrant red, curly hair, consistent with a glueless closure wig, looks at the camera with a neutral expression. She is wearing a black top and bracelets, with her arms crossed, sitting in a car.

Glueless closure wig😍

#curlyhairstyles #wiginfluencer #wiginstall #curlyhair #lemon8beauty

482 likes

clarity is the closure I needed

the more I heal, the easier it becomes to accept what wasn’t real. from The Cycle — a poetry book on growth, clarity, and release. 🕊 link in bio. #healingthroughpoetry #growth #clarity #healing #quotes

16 likes

10 Ways to get Closure🫶

Here’s the truth most people don’t say: Closure is an internal decision, not a mutual agreement. You don’t need a final conversation. You don’t need an apology. You don’t need them to “get it.” You need clarity within yourself. #PersonalDevelopment #HealingLooksGoodOnMe #Bounda

3 likes

A woman showcases a long, voluminous quick weave hairstyle with custom auburn-red color and bangs, styled with soft waves. Sunlight highlights her hair, creating a warm, fall-inspired look.

A close-up of a woman with a long, wavy quick weave in a rich auburn-red custom color, featuring face-framing bangs. The hair is styled with significant volume and soft curls.

A woman with a long, auburn-red quick weave hairstyle, featuring voluminous waves and bangs, looks directly at the camera. A hand is visible near her head, possibly adjusting the hair.

Closure quick weave with custom color 🍂✨

#weavehairstyles #ginger #auburn #fallvibes🍂 #fallhairstyles

209 likes

Stop waiting on closure and start healing

You can’t move forward while replaying old messages, conversation, or memories in your mind. reopening emotional wounds keeps you tied to your past and delays your healing. Closure doesn’t always come from other people - sometimes it comes from choosing yourself, accepting what was, and focusing

0 likes

DAY 9 Releasing the need for closure

Closure feels like the thing that would finally bring us peace… but sometimes it never comes. And waiting for it can keep you stuck in the same place God is trying to move you out of. There are wounds that will never receive the answers they deserve. Some conversations won’t happen. Some apologi

10 likes

Would you go back??

I honestly never did. For me, going back always felt like reopening a door I worked so hard to close. Instead, I sat with the discomfort, replayed everything in my head a hundred times, and slowly worked through my feelings until they lost their grip on me. It wasn’t easy, and it definitely wasn’t

6 likes

Link in my bio to purchase! #amazonfind👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 #amazonhairfinds #amazonhairinfluencer

1291 likes

Trauma doesn’t always look like what you expect…

If you’ve ever wondered why life still feels chaotic even when you’re doing everything “right,” stay here a minute. Trauma doesn’t always show up as obvious pain. For many adults it shows up as: • overthinking every conversation • feeling responsible for everyone’s emotions • reacting quick

1 like

A dark door with a brass doorknob is framed by white and black speckles and snowflakes. Overlaying the door is the text: 'I'm learning that closure doesn't always come... and that has to be enough.' The image includes 'Glow Within' branding and website information, reflecting the article's theme of finding peace without traditional closure.

Closure doesn’t always come… and that’s okay

Sometimes you don’t get the apology. The explanation. The moment where it all makes sense. Sometimes people leave quietly. Sometimes answers don’t come. Sometimes the only closure is the way you choose to keep going anyway. And that’s a grief no one prepares you for. But somehow, in the q

7 likes

See more