Friendsgiving with my childhood friends

Hosting Friendsgiving with my childhood friends is genuinely one of my favorite traditions, and this year was extra special. It's more than just a meal; it's our chosen family coming together before the holiday rush, celebrating the bonds that have seen us through so many years. There’s something truly magical about gathering with friends who knew you before you knew yourself. We spent the evening reminiscing about hilarious high school antics and sharing dreams for the future. It's these moments of shared history and future planning that really let you savor those childhood connections. Don't forget to pull out old photos – they're always a hit and spark the best stories! For our Friendsgiving, we usually opt for a potluck style. It takes the pressure off one host and everyone gets to share their favorite dish – from a classic green bean casserole to adventurous new desserts. Think about setting up a cozy atmosphere with warm lighting and a great playlist. I love using fairy lights and comfy pillows to make everyone feel right at home. Simple, thoughtful decor can really elevate the 'friends experience' without breaking the bank. To keep the energy high and the laughs flowing, we always have a few games up our sleeves. 'Never Have I Ever' (the adult version, of course!) always brings out some surprising stories and helps everyone get to know each other even better. Another favorite is a 'Friendsgiving Bingo' with squares like 'Someone mentions a past crush' or 'Someone brings a store-bought pie.' Charades or Pictionary are also classic crowd-pleasers that don't require much setup and are perfect for creating new, joyful memories. These games are fantastic for building on your shared 'friends experience'. And for those times when a new person joins an established 'friendship group' – maybe a partner's friend or a new colleague who 'became part of a group of friends later in life and they already had been friends for years' – Friendsgiving is the perfect low-pressure environment for them to connect. We always make an effort to include everyone in conversations and games, ensuring they feel like a cherished part of our extended family from the very start. It’s about building an inclusive 'friendship group' where everyone feels valued and part of the shared 'friends experience'. Ultimately, Friendsgiving is about celebrating friendship in all its forms. Whether it's with friends you've known since kindergarten or newer additions who feel like old souls, these gatherings are so important for recharging and creating unforgettable memories. What are your favorite Friendsgiving traditions or 'friendsgiving ideas' you've tried?