PARENTS ‼️— if this is the only thing you read today, let it impact you.

Do you have kids under 12? Then it’s time to talk to them about what consent actually looks like between minors… and all the way up to age 16.

Here’s the part no one tells you: your 12-year-old can legally consent to s*x if the other minor is less than 3.5 years older.

Let that sink in.

Every state has different laws — LOOK THEM UP.

And for the love of your kids, have the conversation.

#ageofconsent #statelaw #drleslie #psychology #protectourkids

2025/11/14 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating the topic of consent with children, especially those under the age of 12, can be challenging but is crucial for their safety and awareness. Age of consent laws vary significantly from state to state, and in many jurisdictions, a 12-year-old minor can legally consent to sexual activity if the other party is within a permissible age gap, commonly less than 3.5 years older. This 'close-in-age exemption,' sometimes called a Romeo and Juliet law, is intended to prevent criminalizing consensual relationships between teenagers who are close in age. Parents should take the initiative to understand these laws thoroughly to provide accurate information and guidance to their children. This involves looking up state-specific statutes, as the legal age of consent can range generally from 16 to 18, and exceptions or variations might apply. Open conversations about consent should emphasize the importance of boundaries, respect, and recognizing uncomfortable situations. Besides legal considerations, explaining the psychological and emotional aspects of consent helps build a foundation of mutual respect and personal empowerment for minors. Bringing in expert advice, such as insights from psychologists or educators specializing in adolescent development, can provide additional depth to these discussions. Moreover, equipping children with this knowledge early encourages them to advocate for themselves and others, helping to protect against coercion or abuse. The hashtag #protectourkids underscores the societal responsibility to foster safe environments, both at home and beyond. Ultimately, having these conversations with minors about what consent means — including legal definitions and real-life implications — is pivotal for their well-being as they navigate adolescence and relationships. Taking the time now to develop these dialogues can profoundly impact children's understanding and safety moving forward.

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Irene Gonzalez

That is horrible. I think it should be 18 but really 20 but to say you could be 12 and the person can be 3 1/2 years older than you and you can consent no that should be not happening anywhere on this earth. It’s horrible simply horrible. Who makes these laws like that? Why would anybody agree to thatGod protect these children and we must protect our children keep them safe from harm from evil people like that who want them sexually that’s despicable.