Talking about my "why". I was on this podcast hosted by Asher Wright yesterday morning and I truly enjoyed it. I shared my first time sex experience. It was such a heartfelt chat alongside fellow guest Joshua Noland.  

Watch the full interview here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GR8ZHCQ4OiY

Support my upcoming one person Orgasmic AF show ErosCoaching.com/events

About the show Pandora's Awareness - Join us each day from Monday through Friday, where we invite our guests to share their first-time experiences, their failures, fears, and the lessons they've learned, their needs, things they need to think, do, or feel that are not happening for them, and their victories.

#pandorasawareness #yourstorymatters #Asher #Lavinia #lifechnagingwisdom #Pandorasawarenesspodcast #drmarthalee

#ErosCoaching #sexologist

2025/9/4 Edited to

... Read moreReflecting on my first sexual experience reminded me how crucial open conversations about sex are for personal growth and confidence. Many people, especially from Asian communities like mine, face a lack of comprehensive sex education and resources, making it difficult to express themselves or understand their sexuality fully. From my personal journey, I realized that talking about sex candidly breaks down stigma and helps others relate and learn. For example, when I pursued my doctorate in San Francisco, I encountered more accessible sexuality education than back home in Singapore, highlighting the disparities around the globe. I’m passionate about representing Asian voices in conversations about sex because it’s often seen as a taboo topic, and representation matters deeply. By sharing my story on platforms like the Pandora’s Awareness podcast and events such as the Orgasmic AF show, I aim to inspire others to embrace their experiences without shame. If you’re exploring your first sexual experience or seeking guidance, remember that learning and expressing your needs are important milestones. Resources like ErosCoaching.com offer valuable events to support your journey toward sexual confidence and pleasure. Ultimately, acknowledging the challenges and celebrating victories in our intimate lives fosters empowerment. The more we share, the more normalized and understood sexuality becomes across different cultures and backgrounds.

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