Some confusion isn’t about you changing—
it’s about them losing access.
~ Dr. Sunshyne
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Food noise isn’t a lack of discipline.
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At some point you have to call it what it is…
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Narcissists don't create confusion by accident.
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Comparison isn’t envy, it’s confusion.
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History Voted On … And Some Chose Denial
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When Clarity Isn’t the Problem
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The foundation for true love isn’t chaos 🌸🦋✨
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