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When "burden" becomes a mirror, we ask some questions about whether we live today or just survive!

On the day my son said, "" Dad, I want to do a small business, I want to farm fish bites, I want to mix strange colors, compete for sale, "my father encouraged me to make roofs, make ponds, make shelves, buy equipment, buy fish breeders, run out of tens of thousands of money.

You were excited early on. Active...

Sit and choose pairs, win colors, win patterns, win fish balls

But finally, when it gets bored, the whole burden falls on me....

At first I thought that it was bad...

Give it away or let it go?

Or continue to feed, keep feeding, give medicine, change water conventionally until death...

But every day, when you see each fish waiting to eat, swim alone, see a male, see a female with a full belly of eggs, in a dozen people, in a dozen people.

I started thinking strange things....

Their lives should only be in a dozen?

Waiting to eat..

Waiting for people to change water..

And then one day died...

In fact, they have instincts, needs, couples, the opportunity to be parents.

I wouldn't have farmed seriously.

Because there's no time and no space like that.

But.....If we have to take care of some life liability,

At least...They should have lived, not just survived.

Maybe what you left behind wasn't a burden.

But it may be some question that people like us....Forgot to think for a long time

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... Read moreจากประสบการณ์ตรงที่ได้ลองเลี้ยงปลากัด และสนับสนุนธุรกิจฟาร์มปลากัดขนาดเล็กของลูกชาย ผมได้เรียนรู้ว่าชีวิตไม่ได้หมายความแค่การ 'อยู่รอด' เท่านั้น ปลากัดในโหลแม้จะได้รับอาหารและการดูแลพื้นฐาน แต่ชีวิตของพวกมันขาดโอกาสในการแสดงออกถึงสัญชาตญาณตามธรรมชาติ เช่น การเลือกคู่ หรือการมีพื้นที่ในการดำรงชีวิตอย่างอิสระ สิ่งนี้ทำให้ผมนึกถึงว่าบางครั้งมนุษย์เราเองก็อาจติดอยู่กับชีวิตประจำวันที่ดูปลอดภัยและเจอภาระมากมาย จนลืมไปรึเปล่าว่าความสุขแท้จริงของเราคืออะไร ในฐานะที่เคยผ่านช่วงเวลาที่ต้องรับผิดชอบต่อตัวเล็ก ๆ เหล่านี้ ผมเข้าใจว่า 'ภาระ' ที่เกิดขึ้นอาจไม่ใช่เรื่องหนักหนาเสมอไป แต่เป็นกระจกเงาที่สะท้อนความคิดและชีวิตของเราเองต่างหาก คำถามที่ว่า "เราได้ใช้ชีวิต! หรือแค่อยู่รอด?" ทำให้ผมต้องกลับมาตั้งคำถามกับตัวเองและวิธีการใช้ชีวิตอย่างจริงจัง อีกทั้งยังสอนให้ผมเห็นคุณค่าของการให้โอกาสสิ่งมีชีวิตได้แสดงออกถึงธรรมชาติของพวกมัน เช่นเดียวกับที่ควรเปิดโอกาสให้ตัวเองได้ทำสิ่งที่รักอย่างเต็มที่ สุดท้ายแล้ว ไม่ว่าฟาร์มปลากัดหรือชีวิตประจำวัน ภาระหรือความรับผิดชอบเหล่านี้มีค่าและสามารถนำไปสู่การเรียนรู้ความหมายของชีวิตที่ลึกซึ้งได้ ถ้าเรากล้าหยุดคิดและเปิดใจรับมุมมองใหม่ ๆ เพื่อให้ชีวิตไม่เป็นเพียงแค่การอยู่รอด แต่เป็นการ 'ใช้ชีวิต' อย่างแท้จริง

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