The amount of messages I received after the Pop Warner Injustice post about that specific organization/others and the people in charge is CRAZY.

I told everyone who reached out that I would keep what they shared with me private because they asked me too, and I will. However, I will say this…

When you have that feeling in your gut, TRUST IT.

I spent way too much time trying to convince myself I was wrong. Trying to see the good. Trying to give people the benefit of the doubt. Making excuses for red flags because I wanted to believe maybe I was reading the situations wrong.

I wasn’t.

The flags were there from day one. 🚩

And after hearing from so many other people with their own experiences, I realize now how much time I wasted questioning my own instincts.

Sometimes that uncomfortable feeling is there for a reason. Pay attention to it.

Stay safe out there yall!!!

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... Read moreFrom my own experience, learning to trust that gut feeling has been a game changer. Often, we dismiss uneasy feelings because we want to see the best in people or situations, but these instincts are usually warning signals. In situations involving organizations or groups, like the Pop Warner example mentioned, those initial red flags can indicate deeper issues. It's important to stay vigilant and not ignore discomfort or doubts because overlooking them can lead to wasting time or even falling into harmful scenarios. I’ve found that sharing experiences with others who’ve felt similarly can be incredibly validating and empowering. It helps us recognize patterns we might have missed on our own. The phrase "When you just know you know!" perfectly captures that instant recognition of something being off. If you ever feel uncertain or uneasy, reflect on what your intuition is telling you. It's okay to set boundaries or ask questions until you feel safe and confident in any situation. Trusting yourself can prevent a lot of unnecessary pain and regret. Always remember, your instincts are an internal safety mechanism designed to protect you. Honing this skill isn't always easy, but it becomes clearer with experience and self-awareness. Staying safe isn’t just about physical security–it’s about emotional and mental well-being too. So, next time you get that uncomfortable feeling or see a red flag, don’t ignore it. Pay close attention and prioritize your safety. Listen to your gut—it’s more reliable than you might think.