I literally woke up to 34 missed calls from my mom, 3 from my dad, 2 from my sister, 1 from my other uncle, and texts from all of them saying for me to call my mom asap so I called her I had just woken up from a nap and reached for my phone like always not knowing it would be the moment I find out my uncle is no longer with us #greif #goodbye #forever38🕊️ #llj💔🕊 #gonetoosoon
Losing a loved one suddenly is one of the most painful experiences we can face. When my phone lit up with dozens of missed calls and urgent texts early one day, I felt an instinctive worry but could never have anticipated what awaited me. The moment I heard that my uncle had passed away was surreal — it’s as if time stopped, and everything around me blurred. In the days following, I found myself overwhelmed by grief, anger, and disbelief, just like the lines in the poem I read that night: "She layed there staring at the floor... She screamed to god 'How dare you lord'." Those words deeply resonated with me, capturing the confusion and pain that come when a life is cut short, especially unexpectedly at 38 years old. Experiencing this loss has taught me about the fragile nature of life and the importance of cherishing every moment with those we love. It’s okay to feel helpless and angry, and reaching out to others who have experienced similar grief has helped me heal. Sharing our stories and emotions is a vital part of processing loss. If you’re going through something similar, know that you’re not alone. Lean on your support system, allow yourself to grieve in your own way, and remember that healing takes time. Memorializing your loved one, whether through writing, art, or simple remembrance rituals, can bring comfort and keep their memory alive in your heart.


















































