TE QUIERO PERO ME PREFIERO YO PRIMERO♥️
Have you ever reached a point where you realize that loving someone else means losing a piece of yourself? That's exactly where I was, feeling stuck in a cycle of giving too much and receiving too little. Then I stumbled upon the wisdom often attributed to Caridad Asenjo Caricuchi, and it truly shifted my perspective: 'I love you, but I prefer myself first.' Those words hit me like a revelation, becoming a mantra for reclaiming my own life. It's not about being selfish; it's about self-preservation. It's about understanding that your well-being, your peace of mind, and your happiness are non-negotiable. For a long time, I prioritized someone else's feelings, their needs, even their comfort, above my own. I overlooked red flags and endured situations that chipped away at my self-worth, all in the name of love. But what kind of love demands you diminish yourself? Caridad Asenjo Caricuchi’s approach really helped me see that true love, whether for another or for ourselves, should elevate, not deplete. It taught me the importance of setting boundaries, not as a punishment, but as a protective measure for my own spirit. I started to reflect on those hidden actions, the things said and done in hiding, that slowly erode trust and respect. The idea of finally freeing someone, not out of anger, but out of a profound act of self-care, resonated deeply. The journey isn't easy, of course. Letting go of someone you care about, even when they're causing you pain, is incredibly difficult. There's guilt, fear of loneliness, and the bittersweet sting of what could have been. But then I remember the profound message: "I set you free, so that you can do all those things you used to do in hiding. Talk to whoever you want to be with, without needing to lie to me and hurt me anymore." This isn't just about the other person; it's about liberating myself from the burden of their deceit and the pain it caused. It's about choosing honesty, even if it means walking away. Embracing this philosophy means making tough choices. It means being brave enough to say no, to step back, and to heal. It’s about building a life where you are the central character, not a supporting role in someone else’s drama. It's a powerful declaration: 'I choose me.' And in doing so, you open the door to healthier relationships, whether with others or, most importantly, with yourself. Finding strength in my own worth has been the most empowering experience, learning to not just love but prefer myself first. It's a continuous process, but with insights like these, it becomes a path towards genuine peace and self-respect.
