If It’s Textable… Please Don’t Call Me 😅
Let’s normalize this gently.
If it’s textable… please don’t call me.
As a working wife and mama, my days are already full — work, home, toddler energy, trying to drink my coffee while it’s still warm. When my phone rings for something that could’ve been a quick text? Immediate mini heart attack.
It’s not personal. It’s just boundaries.
Texting gives me space to respond thoughtfully instead of scrambling.
Tell me — are you a caller or a texter?
As a working mom myself, I completely relate to the feeling of juggling multiple responsibilities while trying to seize any moment of calm—especially when that calm is interrupted by a phone call that could’ve easily been a text. Over time, I’ve realized that setting clear communication boundaries has been a lifesaver for managing my energy and mental space. For instance, when I receive a text instead of a call, I can respond when it’s convenient without the pressure of immediate answers, which means less anxiety and more thoughtful communication. This approach respects my time, especially when caring for a toddler means constant attention and unpredictability. Additionally, I’ve noticed that texting helps me keep better records of conversations, which is invaluable when trying to remember details or plans amidst a busy schedule. I encourage anyone managing a hectic life to gently normalize the preference for texts over calls when possible. This not only helps preserve personal boundaries but also improves the quality of communication. So, the next time you need to reach someone who’s juggling many roles, consider sending a text first—it might just save them from that mini heart attack caused by an unexpected ring.