𝑺𝒐𝒚 𝒆𝒙𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒂 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒂 𝒆𝒍 𝒄𝒐𝒓𝒂𝒛ó𝒏 𝒒𝒖𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒑𝒂𝒂𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒎𝒆
Por mucho tiempo pensé que era difícil de amar
Que sentía demasiado.
Que era ridícula, dramática o intensa.
Pero con el tiempo entendí que no era ninguna de esas cosas.
Solo estaba herida.
Solo vibraba en carencia, esperando llenar con otros lo que me faltaba por dentro.
Me aferraba, me perdía, me rompía...
Y todo por no saber aún quién era.
Hasta que encontré mi identidad en Dios.
Y cuando eso pasó, algo dentro de mí despertó.
Supe lo que era el amor real, ese que no se mendiga, no duele, no se esconde.
Ese que no me pide que me apague para que el otro no se incomode.
Hoy sé que no soy demasiado.
Soy exacta para el corazón que me sabrá amar como Dios me enseñó a hacerlo.
Y mientras tanto, me abrazo. Me amo.
Y camino de la mano de Aquel que nunca me soltó, ni siquiera cuando yo no sabía quién era.
* No eres difícil de amar. Solo estás aprendiendo a hacerlo desde la verdad y no desde la herida. ℰ𝓇𝒾𝓀𝒶 𝒞𝒽𝒶𝓂𝑜𝓇𝓇𝑜
Many people struggle with feeling unlovable or too much to handle in relationships, often because their past experiences have caused emotional wounds. These wounds create a sense of lack or incompleteness, which can lead to seeking validation and love from external sources. This pattern can result in clinging to others or losing oneself in the process, causing emotional pain and confusion about one’s true identity. Healing starts when we recognize that these feelings are not personal flaws but signals of inner hurt. By turning inward and reconnecting with a higher purpose or spiritual identity, such as through faith in God, many find a renewed sense of self-worth and acceptance. This spiritual awakening helps shift the understanding of love from something to beg for or hide from, to a pure and unconditional force that nurtures rather than diminishes. True love doesn’t ask anyone to diminish their light or change to avoid discomfort. It celebrates individuality and respects personal boundaries. Understanding this can help individuals embrace themselves fully and attract relationships where they are loved exactly as they are. The journey of healing and learning to love from a place of truth rather than pain is crucial in becoming whole and attracting authentic connections. This process is deeply personal and often requires patience and self-compassion. It involves letting go of past hurts, forgiving oneself, and learning to hold space for vulnerability without fear of rejection. Over time, as one embraces their true worth and identity, they experience love that is freeing, joyful, and aligned with their authentic self—love that never hurts or hides but empowers and uplifts.