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10 Important Things Not Taught at School

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💡 10 important things not taught at school

Correctness alone does not move people,

Kindness alone does not make things go.

The more I become an adult, the more I feel,

It is that "how to use the mind" rather than "knowledge" affects the result.

✔ a promise

✔ no excuses.

✔ be angry with your feelings.

✔ Do not change your attitude.

✔ important thing is to tell them again and again.

Everything looks natural,

It's surprisingly difficult to ask yourself.

It's okay not to be perfect from today.

With just a little awareness, the relationship changes quietly.

Which of these do you want to value the most?

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私もこの10の大切なことを日々意識しながら生活していますが、特に「約束を守ること」と「言い訳しないこと」が信頼関係を築く上で非常に重要だと感じています。学校教育の中ではどうしても知識習得が重視されがちですが、社会で求められるのはコミュニケーションスキルや心の使い方の方がずっと多いと実感しました。例えば、仕事の現場では約束を破ることがたった一度でも大きな信用失墜につながりますし、説明の際に言い訳をすると相手はかえって不信感を抱きます。私自身、かつて感情的に怒ってしまい事態が悪化した経験があり、その後「冷静に指摘する」ことの大切さを実感するようになりました。また、「何度でも繰り返し大切なことを伝える」という習慣は、記憶に残るだけでなく相手の理解を深めるのに役立っています。これは特に親子や上司部下の関係において効果的で、私の職場でも評価されています。これらは「成功は能力×熱意×考え方の掛け合わせ」といわれる中で、熱意と考え方に大きく寄与する内容だと思います。人間関係のベースがしっかりしていれば能力を発揮しやすくなるのが実感できるはずです。この10選をきっかけに、完璧を目指すよりも少しずつ意識を変えていくことで、普段の生活や仕事の場面で確かに良い変化を感じられるようになります。みなさんもぜひ自分が大切にしたいポイントから始めてみてください。コメントでおすすめの心の使い方をシェアしあうのもおすすめです。

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