What was the worst parenting advice you’ve gotten?

“It’s ok to let them cry it out it teaches them independence.” No it doesn’t. I will always baby my kids i don’t care what age they are they will know that mommy will give all the hugs they need when they cry. #letschat

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... Read moreParenting advice can often lead to confusion and frustration, especially when differing opinions clash. Many parents have encountered advice such as 'letting children cry it out' under the misconception that it fosters independence. However, experts argue that responding to a child's cries can strengthen the parent-child bond and enhance emotional health. Recent studies highlight the long-term benefits of sensitive parenting and emotional attunement. This style nurtures a secure attachment, encouraging children to feel safe expressing their needs rather than suppressing their emotions. In the parenting community, it's essential to communicate and share experiences. Platforms like forums and support groups allow parents to discuss such controversial advice, dispelling myths and reinforcing positive methods. Maintaining an open dialogue fosters understanding and collaboration among parents, ensuring that advice is beneficial rather than detrimental. Remember, every child is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. It's crucial to trust your instincts and prioritize your child's emotional wellbeing in your parenting journey.

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I don’t have kids yet but I’ve heard and seems people who raised or raising their kids and tell them not to say “thank you” for someone give them something. I ask why? They told me it’s because they don’t want their kids to feel like they’re begging for things. Now he has two ungrateful kids. But tell me about it

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The gentle parenting advice blows like honestly I got my my parenting advice from my mother‘s parenting I think she was the best parent and I think I grew up good so I just mimic what she did

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