Viral video = Hate comments 🙂‍↕️

Wow, my heart goes out to anyone who's experienced the sting of hate comments, especially when a video you poured your heart into, like an AD Christmas video, suddenly goes viral. It’s truly overwhelming, isn't it? I know exactly how it feels to be hit with hundreds of mean comments when all you wanted was to share something fun and engaging. Getting 700k views on a video can feel like a dream come true, but then seeing that flood of negativity can instantly turn it into a nightmare, especially when you're already feeling unwell and vulnerable. One of the toughest dilemmas I faced was deciding whether to delete those negative comments or let them sit. On one hand, you want to protect your mental health and keep your space positive. On the other, the internet gurus tell you that engagement, even negative, can boost your video for the algorithm. It's a tricky balance. What I've learned is that while algorithm boosts are great, your peace of mind is priceless. If deleting a few nasty remarks, even from a user named 'Jen' who just seems to be having a bad day, helps you breathe easier, then do it. Or better yet, use the block and mute functions liberally. Your feed is your sanctuary, and you get to decide who gets to speak there. It's also so important to lean on your support system. When my girlfriend jumped in to defend me against some really hurtful remarks, it felt like a hug for my soul. Having someone in your corner, whether it's a partner, a friend, or family, who understands what you're going through and is willing to stand up for you, can make all the difference. Don't feel like you have to face the internet alone. Share your struggles with trusted people; sometimes just venting helps. Remember that often, hate comments say more about the person leaving them than they do about you. People project their own insecurities, frustrations, or even just boredom onto others online. It's rarely personal, even when it feels intensely personal. Try to cultivate a thick skin, but also know when to step away. There's no shame in taking a digital detox, even if it's just for a few hours or a day. Put down your phone, snuggle with your cat, enjoy some Christmas decorations, and remind yourself of the real connections and positive experiences in your life. Ultimately, being a creator means putting yourself out there, and with that comes the risk of encountering negativity. But it also comes with the immense joy of connecting with so many wonderful people who genuinely appreciate your work. Focus on those positive connections. Respond to the kind comments, engage with your true fans, and let their energy uplift you. Protecting your mental health and well-being should always be your top priority. You're doing amazing, and those trolls? They're just noise.