A conversation turned into a dating app.

This app didn’t start as a business plan.

It started as a real conversation with a friend about dating.

The swiping. The guessing. The constant mismatches.

We realized people should be able to choose with intention before matching.

Chozen is currently in beta, and I’m opening a small group of founding members to help shape it before launch.

Comment FOUNDING or DM me if this resonates.

#FounderJourney

#BuildingInPublic

#StartupDiary

#BetaLaunch

#AppFounder

1/23 Edited to

... Read moreHaving used various dating apps myself, the endless swiping and unclear intentions often left me feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from potential matches. Chozen’s approach of allowing users to filter based on attraction and lifestyle feels like a much-needed breath of fresh air in the dating world. From what I understand, Chozen emphasizes intentional selection before matching rather than blind swipes, making it easier to connect with people who truly align with your values and preferences. The beta offers early access to a select group, which means the community is small and engaged—perfect for those who want to influence the app’s development and create a more meaningful dating experience. The app’s inclusivity also stands out; offering options beyond the standard gender and orientation categories shows a thoughtful approach to modern dating landscapes. Joining as a founding member means not only getting exclusive benefits but also contributing to shaping what dating and relationships look like in the future. This concept resonates with me because dating should feel empowering, not exhausting. If you’re tired of the guessing games and constant mismatches, Chozen’s clarity-first model might be worth trying. It’s exciting to see a dating app being built from honest conversations rather than just business goals—making the experience genuinely user-focused and adaptable to today’s diverse dating needs.

Related posts

A woman in a light pink dress poses, with the text overlay "ARE YOU DATING A BOY OR A MAN?" and the Lemon8 logo with a username at the bottom.
A woman in a pink dress stands with her back to the camera, featuring text comparing "Communication" styles: boys avoid confrontation, while men address conversations openly.
A woman in a pink dress looks at the camera, with text comparing "Responsibility": boys make excuses and avoid commitment, while men take responsibility and make commitments.
Are you dating a boy or a man?
Girls girls girls. We know the difference between men and boys. Just make sure you put your foot down before you fall in love with a boy. That’s how you usually get attached, form a toxic relationship and can’t leave. Men just know what to do and when to do it. Boys don’t have a clue. #lemon8p
Avaadagostino

Avaadagostino

2376 likes

💭 Let’s have a real conversation…
Why do some women flirt with women, catch feelings for women, open up to women… but when it comes to actually choosing someone they always go back to men? 👀 Because I don’t think the answer is as simple as people want it to be. For some women, it’s how they were raised. 🙏🏽 They grew up in
Ferlandria✨

Ferlandria✨

1 like

A smiling woman in a bookstore holds a stack of books, with the overlay text "BOOKS TO DOMINATE ANY CONVERSATION," introducing a guide to improving communication skills.
The book "Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High" is displayed, highlighting benefits like mutual respect and clear communication. Red text emphasizes its role in resolving issues and speaking respectfully.
The book "Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It" by Chris Voss is featured, emphasizing improved listening, understanding others, and finding compromises. Red text describes it as a guide from an FBI negotiator.
Books to dominate any conversation
Hands up if you're ever felt that dreaded knot in your stomach before a party or a one-on-one coffee with a new colleague? 🙋🏻‍♀️ I used to be the queen of awkward silences and weather-related small talk. But then I discovered a treasure trove of wisdom hidden between the pages of some incred
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

5195 likes

A glimpse into our love story 🖤
#littlethings #lemon8challenge Tiera met CJ when she was seven and she was eight, their parents already bonded like family long before the two even understood the meaning of friendship. But from the very beginning, they were fire and ice—always bickering, always competing, never quite seein
Tiera Nicole

Tiera Nicole

2530 likes

info narcissist and dating tips lol
#toxicmen #cheaters #embracevulnerability #Lemon8Diary #controllingmen
andrea35reiss

andrea35reiss

129 likes

A woman in a car with the text overlay: "THE WORST GIRLFRIEND ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT PATTERNS RANKED:". The Lemon8 logo and username are at the bottom left.
A woman in a car with text describing "5. SECURE-LEANING ANXIOUS" attachment patterns, detailing their self-awareness and communication. The Lemon8 logo and username are visible.
Text describing "4. PROTEST BEHAVIOR ANXIOUS" attachment patterns, explaining how these women test partners and suggesting de-escalation phrases. The Lemon8 logo and username are at the bottom.
The WORST “girlfriend” anxious attachment patterns
If you’ve ever turned into a full-time FBI agent over a slow reply… same. Ranking the most self-destructive anxious attachment patterns (so you can spot them early and stop sacrificing your peace for reassurance). #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #dating #relationships #girlfriend
Olivia

Olivia

15 likes

Dating App Tips
1. Do NOT show a photo of you with your adult child. Why? Most ppl go on the first photo they see, so they might not scroll and see that you’ve written, “that’s my kid.” 2. Same gender? Which one do I want to date? 3. Different gender? Do they want a 3-way?
tarotheaven

tarotheaven

2 likes

Dating Advice: Relationship Reset Tips
⁉️ What aspect of resetting feels most important for your situation? 🩷Resetting a relationship can breathe new life into it, especially if you’ve hit a rough patch or fallen into unproductive patterns. ✨A reset requires effort from both partners, but small, intentional changes can have a sig
KAREN💄POSTS BEAUTY

KAREN💄POSTS BEAUTY

523 likes

30-Day Anxiety Dating Challenge✨
Don’t forget to swipe ➡️ Week 1: Self-Awareness & Preparation Day 1: Write down what makes you anxious about dating Day 2: List your strengths and qualities that make you a great partner Day 3: Practice mindfulness for 10 minutes Day 4: Identify your deal-breakers in relationships D
Anxiety Diary

Anxiety Diary

118 likes

How to Initiate a Conversation ✨
It's nerve-wracking, but that's a really good thing. Accept that feeling butterflies is natural, Focus on the present moment rather than the “what-ifs.” Try to ease into the conversation with a light question. Something like, “Hey, how’s your day going?” or “I noticed you like [sha
iamchrisgoode

iamchrisgoode

9 likes

Dating Statistics
Why have men turned into dating dropouts? Women have too. Submit your answers in the comments👇🏼 #dating #datinglife #singlemen #singlewomen #tappedout
Jen Larson

Jen Larson

3 likes

A woman in a red dress looks back at the camera while walking away from a man on a street at night. The image has text overlayed: '8 signs you may be dating An Avoidant Man.'
A man and woman stand in a gym, with the woman looking at her phone. Text overlayed reads: '#1 He goes ghost when things get too real. He's not overwhelmed, he's avoidant. Stop mistaking his silence for depth.'
A man embraces a woman from behind, both looking at their phones. Text overlayed reads: '#2 He acts allergic to the "what are we?" conversation. If asking where y'all stand makes him panic, he was never standing beside you.'
8 Signs You Might Be Dating an Avoidant Man
He’s not confused. He’s avoidant. And no amount of softness, over-explaining, or holding it down will fix a man who runs from his own emotions. 📖 Start healing the part of you that keeps settling for almost. Becoming Her Before He Comes — link in bio, sis. Drop a 😮‍💨 if this hit you ..
Soft Cut Society

Soft Cut Society

32 likes

The first image introduces the '30-Day Anxiety Dating Challenge' with the goal of 'Building Confidence and Connection Week By Week'. It features red text over a background of green trees and blue sky, with a 'Swipe' indicator and a 'Dear Diary' logo.
The second image outlines 'Week 1: Self-Awareness & Preparation' of the dating challenge. It lists daily tasks from Day 1 to Day 7, including writing anxieties, listing strengths, practicing mindfulness, and journaling, against a dark background with a 'Dear Diary' logo.
The third image details 'Week 2: Online Dating & Social Interaction' of the challenge. It presents daily tasks from Day 8 to Day 14, such as updating dating profiles, messaging interests, and setting app boundaries, on a dark background with a 'Dear Diary' logo.
30-Day Anxiety Dating Challenge✨
Week 1: Self-Awareness & Preparation Day 1: Write down what makes you anxious about dating Day 2: List your strengths and qualities that ca F you a great partner Day 3: Practice mindfulness for 10 minutes Day 4: Identify your deal-breakers in relationships Day 5: Write a short positive a
Anxiety Diary

Anxiety Diary

116 likes

Bouquets of sunflowers and white flowers wrapped in paper are displayed, with text overlaying "6 questions for a deeper conversation" and Lemon8 branding.
A vibrant bouquet of various colorful flowers is shown, with the question "how can i support you when you feel stressed, overwhelmed or upset?" overlaid.
Two glasses of pink drinks with rosemary sprigs are on a wooden table, with a vase of flowers in the background and the question "what is your biggest fear about our relationship?" overlaid.
6 q’s for a deeper conversation with your partner
These might sound like easy questions but even the easiest ones are sometimes needed to get into a deeper conversation. Even if you are 10 years into a healthy relationship, it’s still very important to communicate and ask these kinds of questions. I’m going to explain why: - Opinions change so
gabrielleassaf

gabrielleassaf

470 likes

Brandy addressed dating Shyne after Ray J spoke out
#trending #explore #celebrity #viral #fyp
The Real Yvette Rants

The Real Yvette Rants

28 likes

Don't let the romance die. Keep dating and trying!
Bond Couples App makes sure you never run out of ways to connect: 💕 Hundreds of Date Ideas - For every season and mood 💬 Conversation Starters - Never run out of things to talk about 🔥 21-Day Reconnection Challenge - Reignite passion ✨ Communication Bootcamp - Strengthen your bond 🎮 Spicy Game
MyBondApp

MyBondApp

57 likes

Dating Apps 😖
Find your perfect dating app so you can find your perfect match ✨ #dating #datingapps #tinder #bumble #christianmingle
officialjerrynoel

officialjerrynoel

50 likes

A vibrant bouquet of pink, white, yellow, and purple flowers sits in a car, with the text overlay "journaling app that i love," introducing a post about a favorite journaling application.
A mobile screen displays the Rosebud app's landing page, featuring "The journal that talks back" and "The #1 AI-powered journal for mental health and personal growth," highlighting its free and AI-driven nature.
A mobile screen shows the Rosebud app's daily journaling interface, including a "Year in Review" section, daily check-in prompts like "Evening Reflection," and statistics for streak, entries, and words, emphasizing personalized questions and real-time feedback.
journaling app i love
The Rosebud AI Journal is an innovative digital tool designed for personal growth and mental health. It harnesses the power of artificial intelligence to offer a unique journaling experience that goes beyond traditional pen and paper methods. Interactivity: Engages users with personalized questi
bernadaja

bernadaja

42 likes

Single N Minglin Speed Dating
🌟 **Ready to try something new??** 🌟 🔗 Join us for an exciting night of Speed Dating — the perfect way to meet new people and spark connections! 💕 🎶 **What to Expect:** - Fun conversation starters to break the ice 🎤 - A lively atmosphere to keep the energy up 🔥 - Quick-paced interactions t
TheeLaTush

TheeLaTush

4 likes

A dark starfish rests on the sand at Trinidad Beach, California, with a sunset ocean in the background. Text overlays read "BEACH" and "Homeschool Opportunity," reflecting a learning moment about marine life.
A little beach day turned into a full homeschool moment 🌊⭐
We found this beautiful starfish on Trinidad Beach, California and of course… curiosity took over 🤍 Instead of just snapping a photo and walking away, we paused and turned it into a real-life lesson: 🌊 We talked about marine ecosystems and how everything plays a role 🧠 Learned how starfish mov
sade_noir

sade_noir

3 likes

ADHD & dating
Dating with ADHD can be challenging because we struggle with the executive functions that build trust and reliability in relationships. Do you experience any of these things? #adhd #dating #adhdlife #adhdinwomen
My.adhd.hacks

My.adhd.hacks

656 likes

biblical truths and trials in dating
Not every relationship trial means it's over. Some are meant to grow us, not break us. God never promised love would be easy, but He DID promise to be with us in the fire. Even the strongest biblical couples faced trials. Faith, patience, and love turned their tests into testimonies. #bi
Megann Louise

Megann Louise

233 likes

A hand holding a pink-cased smartphone displaying the lock screen with notifications from the Lifelight app, including a 'Crystal Ball Letter' and a weekly summary. The image has a text overlay 'Cozy app you Must Have in life'.
A phone screen showing the 'Weekly Letterbox' feature of the Lifelight app, displaying a personalized letter from an AI friend named Emma to 'Bella', offering encouragement and reflecting on her achievements.
A phone screen demonstrating the 'Simple Journaling' feature of the Lifelight app, where a user's journal entries about cold weather and maple leaves are met with supportive and encouraging responses from the AI companion.
Cozy app you Must-Have in life🎀
Looking for a space that feels like a warm hug for your heart and mind? Lifelight is the app you need to make self-care effortless and enjoyable! More than just a journaling tool, it’s a comforting companion that keeps you supported through life’s ups and downs. Here's how it works: 💌 Weekly
Chloe💕

Chloe💕

278 likes

Alphabet dating
Our version of alphabet dating. We did things we’d either never done before or never done together. I’m really grateful for such a good year and an amazing husband. These were simple moments, but they turned into memories I’ll always cherish. #alphabetdateideas #alphabetdating
Gina Monique

Gina Monique

3 likes

A black and white close-up of a smiling couple, almost kissing, with the title "HOW TO HAVE BETTER CONVERSATION WHILE DATING" overlaid. This image introduces tips for improving communication in relationships.
A couple in winter attire stands on a stone platform overlooking mountains, with a large cross behind them. The text advises to "REFRAIN FROM GETTING PHYSICAL TOO QUICKLY" to learn about a partner before becoming physically attached.
A smiling couple takes a selfie outdoors with trees in the background. The text "GO SOMEWHERE QUIET" emphasizes finding a distraction-free environment to focus on conversation and make the partner feel heard.
How To Improve Conversation With Your Partner!
#datingtips Sometimes when you're getting to know someone new it can be hard to figure out what to talk about or even HOW to talk to each other without the awkwardness. AND NO, if there is awkwardness it doesn't mean you aren't meant to be. It's normal! There are, howe
Allie Mac

Allie Mac

91 likes

Paired is the BEST relationship app! 💌
I discovered this app a little over a year ago and I fell in love with it almost instantly! My boyfriend and I always want to get closer and communicate more so after I heard about the daily free conversation I knew this would be a fun app to use to help improve my relationship 😊 There’s so many
Sarah 💌

Sarah 💌

82 likes

A Christian conversation about boundaries:
Boundaries are a contentious topic among Christians. The primary argument is that we should love our neighbor as ourselves (Mark 12:30-31). While this is true, boundaries are equally important. Without them, we risk being treated as doormats. If you’re still reading this, I suspect you’ve been s
tay 🤍💐🎀

tay 🤍💐🎀

11 likes

RELATIONSHIP RED & GREEN FLAGS WHEN DATING 🚩✅
First dates can be a rollercoaster of excitement and nerves! But whether it’s a hit or miss, it’s important to know what to look out for. Here are some green (good!) and red (uh-oh!) flags to keep in mind! ❣️ Keep these in mind and trust your instincts! 💫 Whether it’s a green light for a second
Caroline 🫶🏼

Caroline 🫶🏼

56 likes

Turn Parenting Challenges Into Relatable Content
Parenting is full of challenges—tantrums, missed school days, sleepless nights, and the never-ending “Why?” questions. As exhausting as these moments can be, they’re also some of the most relatable and authentic parts of being a parent. And guess what? Relatability is the secret sauce to creating c
Mrs. Blackhorn

Mrs. Blackhorn

6 likes

Why I Stopped Dating “Potential”
Soft Power, Hard Boundaries: Why I Stopped Dating “Potential” For years, I thought I was too emotionally intelligent to get caught up in a situationship. I knew the red flags. I could read energy. I could clock manipulation from a mile away. …and still, I found myself emotionally attached
Goddess Luxure

Goddess Luxure

4 likes

A cozy desk setup with a white chair and pegboard organizer, featuring the text 'Apps that make my iPhone feel like a cozy journal' and Lemon8 branding.
Screenshots of the Gentler Streak Workout Tracker app, showing features like tracking health, monitoring wellness, and analyzing sleep, emphasizing consistency over intensity.
Screenshots of the FlipYear app, illustrating how it turns daily photos into a visual timeline and auto-created photo library for revisiting memories, with Lemon8 branding.
5 apps that turned my iPhone so cozy🌷
I've been curating my iPhone to feel less like a productivity machine and more like a personal, cozy journal—somewhere I actually want to spend time. 1️⃣ FlipYear ✨ This one lets me flip through my year like a beautiful, animated photo album. I love how it turns my camera roll into somethin
Luna.lifelight

Luna.lifelight

11 likes

DATING FAIL STORYTIME (part 2)
Part 2 of the time I was rejected by a guy because of my low spice tolerance 🤡 #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #getreadywithme #grwmmakeup #grwm #makeup #makeuptutorial #asian #lemon8challenge
meili_zzz

meili_zzz

22 likes

Journal: Amber episode 2 of 3
Chapter 1 — The Committee By Saturday afternoon, Ryan and Robbie had somehow convinced themselves that Amber’s invitation was their responsibility. I wasn’t sure how that happened. I definitely hadn’t asked for help. Yet there I was sitting in Robbie’s basement while the two of them pre
Kevin W. Simpson

Kevin W. Simpson

1 like

dating green flags 💚💚💚
KNOWING what you’re looking for when you’re dating is the absolute best way to avoid wasting your time and energy! 🫶 of course we all have our own personal preferences and personality traits that we look for in a guy, but there are also some universal things that are really good to look out for!
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

214 likes

A white background with yellow text at the top reading "Dating Ins & Outs" and at the bottom "For Success In 2024". In the center, large black text says "STAY SINGLE Until...".
A white background with black text stating: "You know how to set CLEAR Boundaries."
A white background with black text stating: "You're ready for a challenge... Relationships require you to GROW..."
Stay Single Until… Dating Ins & Outs
Here’s some tips to follow while dating! Since being engaged I’ve had to learn these,, even while being in a committed relationship. You have to adjust to life. If you want to be single, have at… but if you want to be in a long term and successful relationship there’s some things you HAVE t
Tiara Marie

Tiara Marie

487 likes

A woman with dark skin and wavy hair holds a fan of hundred-dollar bills. The image features text "PENPAL DATING 101.1 HIDDEN SECRETS OF LETTERED CONNECTIONS" and a red "CLICK HERE" button with a cursor icon. Lemon8 and @lux.empire4 are also present.
Penpal Dating 101.1😬🍵
☑️ Penpal Dating 101.1: Hidden Secrets of Lettered Connections An In-Depth Guide to the Art of Slow, Soulful Connections Welcome to a realm where letters become love spells, silence speaks volumes, and connection goes deeper than the surface. This isn’t your average penpal dating post—this is y
Lux Empire💎

Lux Empire💎

13 likes

See more