Healing takes as much time as you need

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... Read moreHealing is a deeply personal process that cannot be rushed. It requires patience and a willingness to confront your emotions and truths. The messages from the OCR emphasize key elements that foster healing, such as learning your lessons, owning your mistakes, and returning to innocence—meaning a state of openness and authenticity. Trusting the universe and following your own path are vital components of healing. These encourage you to respect your boundaries and decisions, thereby expanding your self-awareness and emotional resilience. Healing is not linear; it often involves setbacks and breakthroughs as you process feelings and experiences. Incorporating love and trust during this journey nurtures compassion towards yourself and others. This can diminish feelings of guilt or shame and promote forgiveness and acceptance. The phrase "Own your bullshit" highlights the importance of accountability in personal growth, enabling breakthroughs and deeper understanding. Ultimately, healing leads to empowerment—allowing you to move forward with clarity and confidence. Embrace the journey at your own pace, honor your heart’s truth, and allow each step to guide you toward a richer, more fulfilling life.

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zI hate to burst any bubbles but you forgot God trust in God not any universe. DO what the Bible says that's true happiness and the best way of finding youtself.

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Could take a lifetime. What a beautiful post. Thank you for sharing.

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