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This book has been talked about so much & I loved the back blurb. It’s been on my Radar and I recently purchased it, it was on my TBR short list so it was finally time. It was one of the books I wanted to read before 2026, for sure.

I rated “Love Mom” 4/5 ⭐️ ; and here’s why:

for starters, it wasn’t as “thriller-y” as I expected! It wasn’t like keeping me bouncing on my toes because “omg, who is doing that?!” But more of a detective-y who/what/why.

There wasn’t really any twists or turns - there WAS an epilogue that had me going “ah sh!t, of course!” But that was it. 😭

But the story WAS good! I liked it. I would recommend it to my friends (and my mama!)

So that’s why it was a 4/5 for me. Just not as heart clenching omg as I expected.

#lemon8bookclub #lovemom #thrillerbookreview #bookrecommendation #BookReview

2025/12/3 Edited to

... Read moreAfter diving into 'Love Mom,' I found myself reflecting a lot on what truly defines a psychological thriller. When I picked up this book, I definitely had certain expectations for heart-pounding twists and turns, perhaps even some jump-off-the-page scares. However, what I discovered was a different, yet equally compelling, kind of tension that kept me turning pages late into the night. For me, 'Love Mom' leaned heavily into the 'psychological' aspect, masterfully weaving a complex web of secrets and lies within a deeply dysfunctional family dynamic. Instead of a frantic chase, it felt more like a meticulously pieced-together puzzle, where the suspense gradually builds from uncovering past traumas and hidden motives. The book does an excellent job of exploring the darker side of human nature and the complexities of relationships, which definitely places it firmly in the psychological thriller realm, even if it doesn't follow every typical genre trope. It’s less about immediate danger and more about the insidious creep of dread as truths are revealed. Speaking of darker themes, the content warnings I noted on the cover – particularly involving intense family drama, secrets that fester, and mentions of r*pe and murder – are crucial to understanding the book's depth and its emotional weight. These aren't just thrown in for shock value; they serve as integral parts of the narrative, driving the characters' actions and the overall mystery. The tension comes from the slow reveal of these deeply disturbing events and their ripple effects, rather than from immediate, high-octane threats. It’s about the lingering psychological impact on the characters and the moral dilemmas they face, making you constantly question their decisions. The book truly delivers on the promise of psychological depth, delving into the minds of its characters as they grapple with their past. The original review mentioned it felt more 'detective-y' and I completely agree with that sentiment. The author, Ilian Kander, skillfully crafts a narrative where you're constantly asking 'who, what, and why.' You’re trying to decipher the true nature of the relationships and the events that led to the present-day conflict. This isn't a book where the villain is obvious, or the plot is straightforward. Instead, it’s a gripping journey into the hidden corners of human behavior, forcing you to question everyone's motives and anticipate the next reveal. The way pieces of the puzzle slowly fit together, revealing a bigger, more disturbing picture, is incredibly satisfying for any mystery lover. So, while it wasn't the explosive, 'heart-clenching' thriller I initially braced myself for, 'Love Mom' delivered a rich, thought-provoking experience that kept me utterly engaged. The 4/5 rating reflects its strong storytelling, compelling and flawed characters, and the unique way it builds suspense through emotional depth and psychological intrigue. If you're looking for a book that delves deep into family secrets, explores the dark side of human psychology, and offers a slow-burn uncover of truth rather than rapid-fire action, then 'Love Mom' could be your next captivating read. It’s a powerful exploration of the lasting impact of past events and the lengths people go to protect their loved ones – or themselves – from their consequences.

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I’ve seen this at Target, but I haven’t heard anyone talk about it until you 🥰

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this is on my tbr!

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