Do you have issues with the eating sounds?

I am someone who cannot stand the sound of someone eating or drinking too loudly or sloppily in my presence. Slurping? No. Chewing? Absolutely not. Lip smacking? Ew. And it's not even simple annoyance, sometimes I feel inner burning rage when I hear it. My sister is the same. But for whatever reason, I'm not bothered by all eating sounds??? For example, I have no problem if someone is crunching on popcorn or candy, and I have no issue with people eating near me, either (until I hear the eating or drinking sounds). I guess what I'm asking is... is this issue specifically related to autism?

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2025/8/4 Edited to

... Read moreI totally get you! That 'inner burning rage' from loud eating sounds is so real. I used to think I was just being overly sensitive, but after experiencing it for years, I've started exploring ways to cope with what feels like a constant assault on my ears. It turns out, this isn't just a 'pet peeve' for many of us; it's often a condition called misophonia, where specific sounds trigger strong emotional or physiological responses. It's not about being rude; it's about our brains reacting differently to certain auditory patterns. If you're like me, trying to 'silence food noise' isn't about being anti-social, it's about protecting your peace. One of my go-to strategies, especially when I'm out in a cafe or restaurant like the one in that picture (where loud eating can be even more noticeable!), is to always have headphones or discreet earplugs ready. A good pair of noise-canceling headphones can be a lifesaver. Sometimes, just having some background music or a podcast playing at a low volume can create enough auditory camouflage to make those annoying slurps and chomps less prominent. Another thing that helps me, especially in social situations, is strategic seating. If I can, I try to sit a little further from people who I know are prone to loud eating, or choose a corner table where there's less ambient noise. It's not always possible, but every little bit helps! And if it's someone I'm close to, like family, I've had to learn to gently communicate my sensitivity. It's not about shaming them, but explaining how certain sounds genuinely affect my well-being. Sometimes, just having a TV on in the background during family meals can diffuse the intensity of the eating sounds. At home, I've found creating a more controlled environment beneficial. I might try to eat my meals at slightly different times if housemates are particularly loud, or ensure there's always some form of gentle background noise. Focusing on my own food, really savoring the taste and texture, can also be a surprisingly effective distraction technique. It shifts my focus away from external sounds and onto my own sensory experience. It’s important to remember you’re not alone in this. While the original article touches on whether this is related to autism, misophonia is a recognized condition that affects many people, regardless of other diagnoses. Understanding that it's a real sensory processing issue, rather than just an annoyance, can be incredibly validating. If these sounds are significantly impacting your daily life, causing extreme distress, or affecting your relationships, it might be worth talking to a healthcare professional or an audiologist specializing in sound sensitivity. They can offer more tailored strategies or therapeutic approaches. For now, know that finding small ways to 'silence food noise' for yourself is a valid and necessary act of self-care!

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This is misophonia - an extreme emotional and/or physiological reaction to specific, often repetitive, sounds. While it is not a diagnosis in itself, the condition can comorbid with OCD, various anxiety disorders, and sensory processing disorders. If you are autistic, it is very likely related! The most effective suggested treatment method is avoiding the trigger sounds, and when that is not possible (something that I too am very familiar with, as the sounds of my own eating can trigger this response for me), the next best option is using some noise reduction aids like headphones or earplugs. Funny enough, while I am triggered by eating and drinking noises in real life, I also really enjoy watching mukbang videos and pet feeding videos. The neurodivergent brain is a fascinating place!

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misophonia ... And I'm finding out the order I get the more I really can't tolerate it🥰

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