I need advice! Do I breakup with my boyfriend??
First, we have just started dating on the 10th so it’s only been 11 days. Idk what to do anymore. He started sitting at my lunch table and he started grabbing my leg, which I thought was normal but then he started going higher and touching me.
I don’t know how to feel about it, idk if it’s normal but I go to church and I’m trying to be more Christ like but idk if i should just tell him I’m uncomfortable and have him stop or just break it up all together.
He is sooo sweet and he treats me like no one has and he truly loves me. I just don’t know what to do.
Navigating a new relationship can be tough, especially when boundaries are tested early on. It's important to reflect on your feelings and establish what makes you comfortable. If your boyfriend's actions seem too forward for the early stages, consider having an open conversation with him about your limits. Communication is key in any relationship. It’s also essential to think about what you value in a partner. Do his actions align with your values, especially given your desire to lead a Christ-like life? Moreover, it might be helpful to seek advice from trusted friends or family who know your situation. Remember, it's okay to prioritize your comfort and emotional well-being, and sometimes, deciding whether to continue or end a relationship can be challenging. Take the time to mentally weigh your options and trust your instincts on what feels right for you.
always tell him you're uncomfortable with it. if he responds harshly or if he keeps doing it and you have to constantly remind him, then break up with him. but if you feel you NEED to break up with him now, then do whatever would make you feel better