Things Being A Dance Mom HasTaught Me Season 1
Things being a dance mom has taught me this past season.
1) Time doesn’t exist at comps.
~Time is flying and stopped all at the same time.
2) Trophies aren’t why we are here.
~ Being in a space to grow is why we are here.
3) We aren’t trying for the DCC. You are 9.
~Life is too long for you to be under pressure at this age.
4) I am learning just like you.
~ We will both make mistakes and we will figure this out together.
5) Comps are just as fun as they are stressful.
~ I will be stressed doing your hair and makeup. I will chase you down to reapply your makeup or fix your hair.
6) I will always be the loudest person in the room for you!
Being a dance mom is truly a unique experience that blends excitement, anxiety, and immense pride all into one. One thing I have realized from my season as a dance mom is how time at competitions can feel both fleeting and endless — you’re constantly moving yet wish you could pause to savor every moment. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions watching your child transform before your eyes. What sticks with me most, though, is understanding that trophies are not the ultimate goal. The real victory lies in watching your child grow in confidence, learn resilience, and foster a passion for dance. The pressure to win can be intense, especially for young dancers, and I have learned to focus instead on nurturing a positive environment where they can explore and enjoy the process. As a mom, I’ve learned right alongside my child; mistakes are inevitable but so is progress. We figure things out together, whether it’s late-night costume fixes or last-minute makeup touch-ups. The camaraderie with other moms and the laughter shared during stressful moments have been invaluable. Competitions are as much fun as they are nerve-wracking. I cheer loudly not only to support my child but also to remind myself that this journey is about more than performing — it’s about embracing every imperfect moment with love and dedication. Being the loudest person in the room feels right, because that enthusiastic support can mean the world to a young dancer stepping onto the stage.