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What women are most interested in men

* * * In a simple summary of what women are most interested in men, they can be ordered as follows:

1.Personality and attitude: Confidence, humor and emotional intelligence (EQ) come first because they affect long-term relationships.

2.Stability and ambition: Having a goal in life, being responsible and dependable in the future (not necessarily rich in the first place, but a future)

3. Taking Care of Yourself and Appearance: Cleanliness, Body Scent, and Being Dressed, More Important Than Typographic Handsomeness

4.Communication skills: Being a good listener; and honoring her and those around her.

5.Chemistry and lifestyle: Have certain preferences or attitudes that match until they match well.

* * * Summary in one sentence: External looks and charm may be the first gate, but "brain, attitude and stability" is what women make long-term choices.

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