a wise man once said

I often find myself reflecting on simple yet profound sayings that offer a fresh perspective on life. Recently, a phrase from 'a wise man once said' popped into my mind, and it's been a game-changer for how I approach daily challenges. The full quote goes something like this: 'Hate has four, just like love. Enemies has seven, like friends. Lying has, like truth. Cry has three letters, like joy. Negativity like positivity. Life always sides, so choose the side that brings light.' At first glance, some parts of it feel like a little riddle, comparing words by their letter count, but the core message is incredibly clear and powerful. It highlights the inherent duality of our existence. Just as there's 'hate' there's 'love'; where there are 'enemies,' there are 'friends.' For every moment of 'lying,' there's 'truth,' and even 'cry' can be countered by 'joy.' This isn't about ignoring the tough stuff, but acknowledging that 'life always sides' – meaning, there's always an alternative, a different perspective, a choice. And that's where the real wisdom kicks in: 'so choose the side that brings light.' This isn't just fluffy positivity; it's an actionable philosophy. For me, choosing light means actively seeking gratitude even on tough days. It means reframing setbacks as learning opportunities. It means consciously stepping away from gossip or negativity that doesn't serve my peace of mind. I've found that when I intentionally 'choose the side that brings light,' my outlook shifts dramatically. Instead of dwelling on what's wrong, I start looking for solutions, for beauty, for connection. For example, there was a time I felt overwhelmed by a personal project. It felt like every step forward was met with two steps back, and 'negativity' was creeping in. Then I remembered this quote. Instead of letting the frustration consume me, I paused. I chose to focus on the small victories, on the progress I had made, and on the passion that ignited the project in the first place. This simple mental shift, 'like positivity,' transformed my approach, and suddenly, the path forward seemed clearer and more enjoyable. It's about recognizing that while both sides exist, you have the agency to decide which one you feed. So, if you're ever feeling weighed down, remember these wise words. Reflect on where you can 'choose the side that brings light' in your own life. It could be in how you react to a difficult conversation, how you spend your free time, or even just the thoughts you allow to dominate your mind. It’s a constant practice, but one that undeniably leads to a more fulfilling and brighter journey.