how I deal with heartbreak as a breakup coach

I've recently experienced some heartbreak of my own, and what was there for me right away was, "i must be a terrible coach if i'm not immune to heartbreak." i seemed to momentarily forget that while i do know all the ins and outs of healing, i'm still a human being, and human beings have emotional reactions. so, this is how i've been navigating my heartbreak so that i can continue to authentically show up for my clients.

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evelyn xoxo

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2024/8/28 Edited to

... Read moreHeartbreak is an emotional experience that nearly everyone encounters at some point in their lives. As a breakup coach, it can feel ironic to navigate this vulnerable phase, yet it's crucial to acknowledge that coaches are human too. Here are some strategies that can help during such times: 1. **Embrace Exercise**: Physical activity is vital not only for physical health but also for mental well-being. Engaging in exercise releases endorphins, which can significantly elevate mood and help counter feelings of sadness. Even a short workout or a walk can decrease anxiety and depression levels while increasing overall happiness. 2. **Commitments Matter**: While emotions can sway like the wind, keeping up with daily commitments can provide stability. This routine doesn't just distract from pain; it also fulfills commitments to yourself and others. Standing firm in these responsibilities can help you feel grounded and regain a sense of control. 3. **Connect with Friends**: Isolation often feels like a natural response to heartbreak, but reaching out to friends can be surprisingly beneficial. Talking, even if it’s about mundane topics, can shift focus from personal grief back into the present moment. This communal support fosters bonding and reminds you that you are not alone in your feelings of despair. Navigating through heartbreak requires patience and self-compassion, but with practical strategies, it’s possible to come out stronger on the other side.

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I’m sorry this is so off topic but you look SO much like Bobbi!

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Thank you. That really helped me 🥰

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