What does it mean to meet your first Chinese girlfriend? 🧧💖

The Chinese people's giving of Aung Pao, especially on the occasion of their first meeting with their daughter-in-law / son-in-law, is not a "test of like or dislike of us, but it is more a matter of custom + etiquette + situation, mainly

🧧 Original meaning

Aung Pao symbolizes blessing, fortune, and is considered a gift ("" jià nmià n l = first meeting gift).

🧧 if you give

Most mean "welcome and blessing." Not going to mean he likes or dislikes us.

🧧 If not to: Doesn't mean he doesn't like it. Maybe because

1. His family does not hold this custom.

2. He is not prepared because he is not expected to meet.

3. He has other ways of expressing hospitality (such as cooking, buying souvenirs, etc.)

🧧 In a new generation of Chinese families or uncultured families, Aung Bao may not be a necessity.

🧧, but in a Chinese family that seizes the hair, giving will also "open the door" for you to enter the family relationship.

💖 Simply put, Aung Pao = blessing and hospitality, not a preference test score. 💖

🧧 If he doesn't, don't think he doesn't like it.

Look at the overall actions, such as tone, attitude, persuasion, or parenting intention.

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