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5 Things Back Will Not Do to Chinese Men 🇨🇳

Ladies, I can tell you that there are a lot of things to do when you date a Chinese guy 😅 today, so I want to share 5 things that you will not do with a Chinese guy in case anyone is talking and will not miss it.

❌ 1: Not dividing rice values with Chinese men. 🍲

This one doesn't have to curse because Chinese culture doesn't divide rice values.

Like Thai people, Thai people may be used to dividing or helping each other pay, but for Chinese people, especially early dates, they will pay for themselves. If a Chinese person likes us, they often want to take care and don't want us to pay. But if a man allows a woman to divide or let a woman pay during a date, that means he doesn't want to take care of you = not seriously.

But when dating, helping each other out or raising each other back is normal, but most real men do not allow the woman to leave anyway, hahahahaha

❌ 2: No, party to men first. 🚗

Is everyone understand this picture? When dating in Thailand, we are quite chill. We meet halfway. Anyone can go there or separate to meet at the store. Not very serious, but with Chinese men. If they really like us, most of them will be more "approached," whether they pick up by themselves, make an appointment where we are convenient, or always ask if it is difficult or not. Some people call the car or if they can drive, pick up at all. It is different that if they are serious, they will pay attention to our convenience, rarely let women have to travel to them, but if they can't talk. Seriously, often ignore these details, sometimes let us go alone, not think we're in trouble.

❌ 3: Not going on a date if you're just going for a walk in the mall-cafe. 🛍️

At first, it may feel like walking in a mall, watching a movie, sitting in a cafe is cute, but for many Chinese men, this kind of dating seems "not invested" and may not be serious. If he is really serious, he often invites to have a good meal, sitting down for a long conversation to get to know each other. Because Chinese culture values "eating" a lot, it is used to build relationships and to look at each other. Besides, most Chinese people do not get into dating cafes or have a Thai coffee culture, so they rarely see dating from cafes, especially first dates, they often try to do their best, and are dedicated to creating ideas. Impressed because some people see the first date as very important to develop into a serious relationship, so if you want to see how serious he is, notice from dating how much he cares and values us, not just passing the time.

❌ 4: No, launch down social too soon. 📲

Seen a lot, many people make Chinese fans because it is a trend, get followers, but actually the relationship is absolutely nothing. Some Chinese people love fast, love hard, hurry to show off and but when it is not over quickly, some couples have been dating for a year, then take a girlfriend to make full content. Finally, do not survive. After quitting, have to sit and delete and be ashamed of people. Better to be together for a while, make it really stable, or at least the person who took to launch with the family and then launch social media is not late because some things are personal, will save your feelings More than a Chinese man, absolutely nothing. Confident before going down.

‼️ 5: Won't be fooled down when you meet a Chinese man / Pey 💐

At first, it would be exciting 😅 because Chinese men take good care of it, and they pay for everything, take a good thing, carry a bag, pay attention to it, like it's out of the series, never met from Thai men before, so they accidentally show off social, but people who have been on the Chinese line for a long time will know that... this is the bare minimum of Chinese men, they consider it normal to make their fans happy, even if they keep it in mind, you know, two people don't have to scream, show off on social or Tat. To look too crazy, because the Chinese sisters-in-law that they are married, they do not sit down like this, only the little children or new people are down. You notice, people who have been dating Chinese men for a long time, they do not show off like this. It is found until they get used to it, hehe. 😛

🇨🇳 The conclusion is that Chinese men are both good and bad. The important thing is "don't rush" and don't let the heart go too fast. Because love is uncertain in this industry. Some people love fast, it ends fast. The first period may look good, handsome, rich, pay, but if it doesn't last, it is not worth anything anyway. What should really be looked at is a person who has consistency, stability, and he has been with us for more than a long time, because the most enviable love is not an early overtones, but a relationship that is "always the beginning and survives" rather than 💖

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