Young Chinese Review: Eldest Son vs Younger Son 🇨🇳

Have you ever wondered how different the eldest son and the youngest son of a Chinese person are? So today we're going to be hard to experience many Chinese people telling + their own. 👀

🧑🏻 eldest son - carrying the whole world.

1. Pressure from parents

The eldest son of a Chinese home often faces a lot of pressure because the parents themselves are just the first parents, too, every mistake, every expectation, it presses at the same time, both parents and children, we can call it shared pressure. 😅

2. High expectations.

Chinese people believe that a man must lead. This time, if he is the eldest brother, he must set an example for the younger. → He must be good, he must be tough, he must be the head of a small family from childhood.

3. Bear the family future

According to traditional cultures (especially parents-grandparents), when parents get older, they move in with their eldest son, home, car, what treasure. If parents have the status, they tend to support the eldest because they have to leave their lives with them → In a simple conclusion, the eldest is the highest hope of the parents.

4. In-law must pass through the mother-in-law stage.

The eldest son = our girlfriend must meet the criteria of parents, because the future must be in the same house. The eldest in-law is higher pressure. Some houses are dark to the point of not even wanting their son to marry a foreigner. But now the younger parents (50 years old) are starting to open up more.

In total, being the boyfriend of the eldest son has to be a little bit of heartbreaking, because in addition to the serious, highly responsible male, the parents themselves are strict.

👦🏻, the youngest son - the real voice.

(This one is a lot of reviews because my girlfriend is the youngest son)

1. Oh son of the house

Because parents have poured out all the expectations on their brother, so small grew up indulgent. What do you want to learn? What do you want to do to your parents?

2. Cute children's habits

The youngest son is shy. The corner of the children likes to be kind. When you are with your girlfriend, there is a cute moment like a boyfriend. 😍

3. Parents green light about the daughter-in-law. 🤣✅

See you on the first day, my girlfriend called Dad / Ma, hahahaha. Don't have to come to Aee Chu Chu to waste time. Ma said, my mother, my children are closer. I'm Chok, my girlfriend is Chok. My sister, my girlfriend is Chok. 55 So when my relatives asked what we called my girlfriend, we said that Ma Ma, they all tease each other, hahahahaha. He said that he would like it very much.

(Is usually a Chinese custom, if not married, Niak Papa / Ma is not a family, must wait to marry first)

4. Parents are very kind → Love us like another child, indulge, want to eat anything, want to go anywhere, arrange it all

5. No pressure on marriage and children → Because the brothers have a family, the grandchildren are full of houses, so the expectation goes to the brothers instead.

6. Live chill → Live in China or Thailand. Parents are not serious because they already have grandchildren in China, not lonely.

7. No problem like some houses → Foreigners married their son and moved to China, otherwise the mother-in-law is not ok. Of this house is comfortable. Stay anywhere. Just us and my girlfriend are happy.

Dating a young son is like getting a bonus. Parents, girlfriends will lean to see us along. Sometimes, oh, we are so shy. Mod / fragrant in the morning, haha. Like being born as a child

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