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Chinese boy brought home Chinese New Year ❤️🧧

I have to say, this is the "first Chinese New Year in my life" in a serious way, 🧧✨ because we are 100% Thai, have never experienced this Chinese New Year atmosphere before, and this time is special to be with our girlfriend's family in China. 💕

Actually, we've met my girlfriend's family last time, so this time is close without tense. This time, it feels like we've gone home. There are people waiting for us. I miss my grandchildren, kids, school holidays.

🧧❤️ Day 14 (Valentine + Back Home Ancestor)

This year, Valentine hit the Chinese New Year, so our girlfriend came together today, hahahaha. Not yet having seen the flowers, woke up, hurried to keep the house neat and returned to the ancestral home that evening. The long ride to the car was very late. Everyone got there. The two of us were the last couple, hahahaha.

This house is like the main house of the family. 🏡 In the same area, there are many houses built next to each other, like a zone of the same family. The house we go to belongs to the father of the girlfriend. The grandmother's house is next to each other, like a few steps to the 😆. Each son will separate his own house next to each other. And whether it is Chinese New Year, wedding or family important, everyone will have to come back here.

Anyone who has a Chinese girlfriend will understand that "returning to ancestral home" is very normal, but people who never like to think that it is scary, difficult to go to the countryside. Oh, no, no 😭. In fact, these houses are not sedentary. Everyone has grown up, they have moved to work in the city, but they keep this house to remember the ancestral people. We are teased so often that they are lazy to explain. Let's say that people who only have mainland Chinese fans can understand, hahahaha. 😆

And tell you... the atmosphere is very good 🌿⛰️, there are chickens, goose-raising, mountain-view, good weather, full-lung breathing, from people like us, it gives us a feed like a lodge, the weather is really hot. 🥹✨

🧧❤️ Day 15 (Pay Day + Super Busy Day)

Morning is going to the market... and there are a lot of people. 😱 The stuff is full. Everyone buys heavily like to open a shop, hahahaha. And what we like a lot is that the villagers use a "backpack basket" to put the stuff is very cute. 🧺 Phil the Doi 😍, the most lifestyle. I like it.

When returning home, everyone will disperse to do their own duty.

👧🏻👩🏻: Women will cook only in the kitchen. Prepare a large set of rice for Chinese New Year all week. And the Chinese New Year in China is long. In China, they can stop for 2 weeks. Our house only has Ma Ma and niece who cook. We do nothing. Very comfortable. Every day is waiting to eat + sleep. They only let us do anything. 😅

1. Maybe because we are guests

2. We can't cook. They do it ourselves faster. Hahahahaha 😂

But try to pick up and hold. Please lift the food to the table. There is nothing to do. Understand people want to help, haha.

👦🏻 Let's see the boys.

I really like this side. It's fun. There's a lot to do. Come home. Women go to the kitchen. Men are going to decorate the house, hahahaha. The male side is very chilling. Mainly, there is no need to do anything. Eat and play only. Adults are drinking, sit and talk, hahahaha. In the evening, the male side is starting to play firecrackers and play.

But men work hard at night. Everyone helps to clean the house like a big lift 🧹. Repair that in the house. Change the things in the house. It's not good. It's hard work. Everyone in the house will unload the shoes to wash the whole house. Washing, washing hair is like clearing life before New Year. Really confused. Everyone in the house looks the busiest. Because after this, they will not work at the house!

Oh, I forgot to say that people here before Chinese New Year have to cover the water with 2-3 large tanks. Because on Chinese New Year, tomorrow the water will not flow because everyone uses all the water to cook. How much to cook. Think about all the water, so they use the water in advance. 😂

🧧❤️ on the 16th (New Year's Eve + Chinese New Year Night)

Today everyone is busy early in the morning. Prepare to make a big dinner. We don't have to pay homage. My father, my girlfriend, is alone. The younger generation is no longer paying homage. My sister, my girlfriend is 30 years old, is not paying homage. Only my father and my mother are still doing.

This morning, the girlfriend only said that today to make up + dress beautifully, because tonight is New Year's Eve, welcome the new year, will be lucky and beautiful all year, what do not know 😂, and will take to the relatives' house too. The relatives on the mother's side are secretly excited. We prepared a lot of Thai souvenirs. 🥰

The evening is a big meal. 🍲✨ Everyone is eating with their eyes. A lot of food, but not just eating over the day. Chinese people today are simpler, not as big as we have seen Chinese Thais doing. This is the same. Most Chinese people in China focus on making small tables to eat each other day and do not like to eat overnight.

Chinese New Year Period 🧧 For Chinese People If Working Then = Adult

👶🏻👧🏻: The children should start to get Aung Pao, not just waiting to receive it. The minimum popular is about 500 baht or 100 yuan. In the envelope should only be "100 yuan red bank," ❤️ because it is the auspicious color of the new year, should not wear a small bank or a piece of money. It does not look suitable. There is no need for every child to give only a family child or a confidant.

👵🏻👨🏼‍🦳: As for the parents, the girlfriend suggests that "if you give it well" will look very mannered and cute. Do not be afraid. Adults give us 100 times back. Every year, the girlfriend gives Hong Pao our parents. We give both parents and this year the parents to the girlfriend. Importantly, the adult envelope must be "more than children." ❗ Do not give less or equal.

I have to say that Chinese culture likes to come back. Anyone can give first, but for example, eating will not eat each other, but they will take turns to treat this meal. I feed you the next meal. If eating for free on one side, the next meal, we do not feed friends, return gossip friends at all. And the Chinese people are very strong, must understand that it is their Chinese culture, it is quite rude. If they are waiting for one side, the Chinese people, if we give them, they give us back, can not lose money 😂

At night, I went to my cousin's house, my mother's girlfriend visited. Hey! Hey Gong is to get to the "welcome fireworks" moment. 💥😂 Playing mahjong, drinking liquor, making long life updates. This is why we learn more Chinese because we meet a lot of Chinese people, want to talk to more people, Chinese people, very big society, many friends, relatives to socialize.

And then go home almost midnight, the night across the year 00: 00, everyone will be waiting for the new year. Every house has its own fireworks. It's as loud as war, hahahaha. But it's so beautiful. 🎇 2 am, it's stopped. Seriously, the Chinese are very mannered. Quiet.

🧧❤️ 17th (First day of the new year)

Happy Chinese New Year. Wake up to the ears. Yesterday played fireworks like a cork. 😂

On the first morning of the year, the married girlfriend sister came home. According to Chinese custom, the daughter is married to another family, and then he has to stay with her husband's family on Tuchinese Day. After Chinese New Year, the woman will bring her husband home to her parents, bring her children to her grandparents.

Today will enter the mode of wiring to visit relatives, hahahaha.

Well, it will go around like this. We go to eat - the relatives' house and relatives come to eat - our house alternates like this for almost 2 weeks 😂, because the Chinese people have a lot of relatives, a lot of houses, and we also have to eat with our brother-in-law's family, because it is all the same family, that is, before eating all the houses, do nothing but eat, drink, play cards, play jaws. It is the only time that everyone actually gets back together.

❤️🧧 After Chinese New Year + Back in Town

During this period of time, all the 💒✨ auspicious walks. After Chinese New Year, this is considered very good. Chinese people hold auspicious events such as weddings, housewarming, so that it is called the golden minute of the year.

We have to go to our sister-in-law's wedding and our brother-in-law's ancestry, both non-family, but his brother-in-law is married to our girlfriend's sister. It is the same family and we have to go.

After that, back to Khun Ming, it came to be "Small New Year." We can't remember the name. What day is it? But my girlfriend said that it is a small New Year's Day, it is also an important day. 😂😅 Everyone lit fireworks all over the city again. 🎆 It is like celebrating the second round. It is really beautiful, not losing the main day. Everyone is very beautiful. People lit the whole city, walk anywhere, see only Phul 😍😍😍😍. There are fireworks everywhere. Really, facing, there are fireworks. Turn around and find Phul like this. That night, we drove to see fireworks all night.

Well, if we want to interpret this New Year's Day as if Chinese New Year is New Year's Day, everyone is returning to their own domicile, no one is in the city. Now, after Chinese New Year is the time when people go home, they come to celebrate their homes in the city again. It doesn't have every city, but Khun Ming has

💖🥺 Before, I used to believe that the Chinese New Year must be tired, the Chinese in-law must wake up early, cook, be used by the mother-in-law as in the drama 😭, but when I come to live, the opposite is complete. Everyone is very welcoming. The girlfriend's house is spoiled. We take good care of it like the little child of the house. Keep asking all the time. Want to travel anywhere? What to eat? 🍓 And they know that we like to eat strawberries, they keep buying them all the time to eat. Last day in China. 😭😭😭😭 Everyone takes good care of us, weighs up to 5 kilos. 😅

💖🫶🏻 Thank you my girlfriend. Every time I go to China, he always takes me home 🥺 to meet my family, introduce relatives like we really got into his life, making me feel that we are part of his family. In fact, when I asked if I ever brought anyone to see my family, I was the first and only one. For Chinese people, meeting my family is very serious, not anyone. 💖

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