With people we love🫶

it’s easy to mistake people-pleasing for being loving. we think of it as self sacrifice in order to accommodate others, right? in reality, it’s actually one of the most selfish ways to engage with other people. and here’s why ⤵️ reasons we people-please: ➡️ to avoid conflict ➡️ because we fe

we all know the struggle 😅 you don’t feel like you can say no to plans. someone asks about details of your life you don’t want to share, but you feel obligated. your manager asks you to work more hours, and you automatically say yes. breaking the people pleasing cycle is uncomfortable as hell. i

I think it’s fair to not want to be so available for others. It’s a great practice of protection, and creates more time for solitude. At times, our feelings and how people are acting around others can be conflicting with how we feel about them. They may be likeable to most people, but for w

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saying no is hard 😅 it can feel awkward and uncomfortable, and sometimes it seems so hard that we don’t do it - we just say yes, even when we know we don’t want to. if you struggle with people pleasing, or saying no, these tips are for you ⤵️ when you should say no: ✅ when you feel uncomforta