Trying to remember to keep the relationship closed

I was so happy with living my life. Then I saw something that reminded me of a person that I don't talk to anymore. I know this person was not good for me. I know its healthier for me to stay away. But some days I miss them. I know the relationship is not the same anymore. I do not what to reopen the relationship. Its slight sadness knowing someone that I once was close to is a stranger now.

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I have pictures that popped up and whilest I am moving on from that person no reminders are not needed

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