It’s my birthdayyy!!♐️

Happy birthday Britt!!! 😍🥰🥰🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

Always remember: You attract what you are, and karma comes back tenfold. Spread love and positivity, and always be real with yourself. You set the standard for how others treat you. Don't seek validation from anyone. Live your life, pay your bills, do right by others, and love one another. When others go low, go high. Move in silence. You don't need to be seen to be effective. I've learned that my mouth can be too loud at times, but it's also been my strength. I've made mistakes, but that's life—it's all about learning, growing, and doing better.

At 32, I’m thankful for my child, family, support system, and the wisdom I’ve gained. I’m grateful for everyone in my life. I know the importance of treating myself with love; because when you love yourself, everything else falls into place. Set affirmations, create daily goals, push toward your dreams, don’t be manipulated or guilt tripped, and never give up. Life is full of blessings, and I’m embracing each one. Happy birthday to me!

I've lost count of the times I've helped others as I enjoy it—giving without expecting anything in return. I recently gave a man my last $20 because he needed it. The same day, I unexpectedly got $100. I've also gone out of my way to ensure people had food when they needed it. I give because I love to spread positivity and know someone is in need.

Also, not everything requires a response. Sometimes, it's best just to let things go. As a people-pleaser, I've often put on a persona instead of being my true self, but I'm working on it. I've struggled with validation and communication, often coming across as shy or awkward in social situations. I used to mimic how others communicated without fully understanding how to express myself, but I strive not to be that person. Over the past two years, I've committed to being authentic. What you see is what you get. I'm unlearning bad habits, passing on knowledge, and teaching others, especially my kids. Affirmations, love, learning, and speaking and communication when necessary are crucial.

Don't settle unless it's what you truly want. Live life on your terms. Eat right, stay healthy, talk right, and communicate clearly. Take care of your well-being. Remember, the easy path isn't always the best one and may even be the longest.

Have confidence. Don't leave your house unless you feel like the best version of yourself. Speak your truth, and mean what you say and say what you mean. Treat yourself and others with respect. 

Time, energy, what you say or do, and feelings can never be regained.

It's important not to look for handouts. Take care of yourself. Don't rely on anyone else to fund your wants or needs. Keep your personal business to yourself because, more often than not, people don't care about you or your situation.

Self-love, self-care 💖: Learn to be content on your own

Learn to be content on your own, travel solo, and always put yourself first. Help others when you can, be kind, and stay teachable. Stay motivated, stay aware, and stay safe.

Spread positivity, have fun and be present. Get up, clean up, work out, and prioritize your health. Don't look for handouts—take control of your life.

Change your lifestyle, appearance, and mindset. Break free from cultural norms. Love and care for your family and others, communicate well, and be real. Respect others and never feel guilty for saying no.

Don't settle unless it's truly what you want. Take control of your life and shape it the way you envision. Prioritize your health by eating right, staying active, and doing what's right. Communicate clearly and positively. Give back to others, take care of yourself, and stay in charge of your path. You don't need to cheat or lie your way to success. Change things up—your appearance, your habits, and your lifestyle. Focus on financial growth, unlearn bad behaviors, and break free from societal expectations. Spend quality time with your kids, love them, and nurture them. Take care of your family, communicate openly, and always stay true to yourself. Fix that broken relationship if it will bring you peace. Dead that relationship if it becomes stressful for you. Show respect to others, and don't be afraid to say no or speak up when needed. Remember, the easy road isn't always the best one—it could end up being the longest.

Be mindful of your choices and take care of your body. Your health is precious, so make decisions that support your well-being. No need to slang dick or throw pussy around. Constantly seeking pleasure, whether it's through casual hookups or toys, is damaging to your health and spirit. Facts....!  Mixing negative energy with that lifestyle only worsens things. Go get checked consistently and take care of your health. Stop playing games with your body.. Take care of your health!

If you can't drink or smoke in moderation, put it down. Substance abuse is taking a toll. Instead, focus on your physical health—hit the gym, use the sauna, or relax in a hot tub. Seek counseling or therapy.! Seek out natural remedies. If you find it hard to practice moderation with substances, it may be time to reassess your habits and focus on your health

Don't let debt or financial pressures control your life and keep you in slavery. Live within your means, make mindful choices, and prioritize your well-being. Take control of your finances and focus on what truly matters. Buy what you can afford and be mindful of what you put into your body. Take control of your health and wellness.

Don't follow trends—be a trendsetter. Not everyone is cut out to be a business owner, and not everyone has the same life journey. Embrace your unique path and use it to make a positive difference. Invest in your local community and support those around you.

Even when people go low, respond with kindness. Wish them the best, both privately and publicly. You'll be surprised at how far this simple act can take you.

Invest in your children's future. Help them with their homework, encourage them to read, and teach them lessons that the world won't. Be present in their lives. They may not realize it now, but you are their greatest teacher. Be patient as they make mistakes—let them learn and grow. Your guidance will shape their future, so communicate with them and prepare them for adulthood. Protect them from harm and love them unconditionally. Education and communication are key to their success. Make sure these kids are presentable before walking out that door.

I treasure every moment because we all have to leave this world one day. Material things never matter when it's all said and done. I love to experience.

Happy birthday to me, again! Grateful for the journey, the lessons, and the blessings. Here's to embracing each day and becoming the best version of myself. Cheers to growth, love, and living authentically. ✨

**Looking for someone to book me this weekend for a natural hairstyle, trim, or cut? DM me! (For me and the little one.)**

Also...

**Men, take note:** I’m not interested in anyone who isn’t working hard LEGALLY—whether through a career, hustle, or job. I don’t want anyone who neglects their children or avoids responsibility. If you’re struggling to take care of yourself, focus on that first.

I'm also not interested in anyone still entangled with their baby mama, married, or in any complicated situation with someone else. Keep the drama and negativity away from my life.

**In general:**

- No fake love or shallow conversations.

- Lack goals, ambition, or motivation to improve? Forget I exist.

**Please note:** I’m interested in making genuine connections and networking only.

I could go on and on, but I'll save some thoughts for another post if I decide to share. There’s so much unsaid, but for now—Happy Birthday, Self. I love you! And these kids love you too! ❤️

Remember to take a moment each day to reflect on what you’re thankful for—big or small. It changes your perspective

Here’s to the next year of growing, loving, and stepping into my full power. Cheers to embracing every moment!. Chapter 32!