May I have some advice?📌✨🌷

We have our first son. We are very concerned about raising a son. We want to know if our friends and male siblings have ideas about learning, how to live, how to have advice, or how to comment that some things women and men do not think the same. We are single mothers. No father advised us. We are afraid that we will not understand each other with children.

We do not want to pressure our children about studying. We just want to teach them that studying is important, but not all. But if they want to do something, sometimes they have to practice long-term. For example, if you want to take a good school exam, you have to start from the beginning to get to your intended destination. Or if you do not like academia, how to plan not to throw away your study and do what you like. We do not want your children to miss like studying, but do not know what you really like. We have to cultivate your children since when you are in 1st grade. They study well, but are very interested in working. I like to see your grandfather when working.

P.S. I can't consult my grandfather because my grandfather pressured me to study well. I have to take a good entrance exam. I only have to finish a good university.

We don't want children to be like that. And all the time, all of our female friends have thought the same way. How to study is important. How to get the best grades to get a good college exam. We want to know how to think in the male corner. Because I saw some male friends speeding up the entrance exam and getting better when going to university (meaning starting to study better behavior, stop being addicted to games). But we study special classrooms all around, so there are only good people. Even if we just concentrate on studying, we are still good at it, so we are confused about how to make your children the happiest.

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